It takes two to tango. Some girls are not attracted to you, and you are not attracted to all girls. Stick with the girl who takes that amazing PUA out of you, and ignore the others. You have chemistry with that girl, not the others. Note that this is a learning process where you learn things about yourself. You learn what you want from girls, and to make demands. If you find a girl boring (too serious), ditch her!
When I was new in the game, I recall feeling the same way as you do now. I felt like "it's always my fault if I don't get the girl", as if I did something wrong. And it came from stupid things Mystery and others once said - that you can only blame yourself if you don't succeed. Combine that with the false claim that some "gurus" make (Mystery included) that they can get any girl they want, and you have some true poison for your mind, making you feel bad about yourself. Because if you can't match their claimed and impossible "success rate" you will always think there's something wrong with you, as if you have not yet mastered the game. It's all about rhetorics, skillfully used by RSD among others, to make you feel bad about youself, like you need their help, so that you want to pay for their "divine knowledge" (it's their business after all).
My tip to you is to learn the NLP technique "pacing and leading", so you learn about building rapport. When that's done, pay attention to how incongruent you become if you try to pace with someone who is a complete mismatch to you. Remember how important it is to be congruent in game! This will give you insight in the importance of having chemistry from the very beginning with a girl in order to attract and become attracted. Good luck!
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