Check out Ross Jeffries' Boyfriend Destroyer pattern:
Chapter 11:
THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER, PART II
When to use this pattern: This pattern is for use when you ask a
woman out and she hits you with that famous line, "I have a
boyfriend". It's purpose is to get her to meet you for coffee
anyway, at which time you can play with her mind using any of
the other patterns we'll give you. It's also another example of
one of my favorite types of patterns: time distortion!!!
Steps/tools used:
1. Trance phrases/time distortion to get past her resistance.
2. Trance phrases to get her imagining already having been
with you and really enjoyed it.
3. Get her to repeat that train of thought.
4. Pitch for coffee date.
You: Well, look, I really enjoyed this, and I'd like to
talk to you again sometime? Can I call you?
Her: Sorry ... I have a boyfriend.
You: You have a boyfriend? Well, I have to admit I'm
disappointed, I have to respect that you're in a
relationship. But let me ask you a question. How
surprised would you be to FIND YOURSELF ACTUALLY
LOOKING FORWARD TO SPENDING A LITTLE TIME WITH ME? I
mean maybe to the point where you could IMAGINE US
OVER COFFEE, LAUGHING AND HAVING THE BEST TIME, and
you starting to FEEL REALLY COMFORTABLE WITH IT? As
you THINK ABOUT IT LIKE THAT, doesn't seem natural to
meet like Monday or Tuesday for coffee?
The Boyfriend Destroyer: Part II
Note: Originally, I taught this pattern to be used if she
brought up the boyfriend objection when you first asked her out.
With all the other patterns I've shown you, I'd only use it now
if she brought up the boyfriend as part of an objection to
getting physical or after you'd been screwing for a few weeks.
Her: I'm sorry ... I can't keep seeing you. I should have
told you before, but I have a boyfriend.
(or, as you are making out like crazy)
Her: We really shouldn't be doing this. I have a boyfriend
You: But I'll tell you what really fascinates me. It's
like, what's this guy's name you're going out with?
Her: Bill
You: Right, so you're going out with this guy, Bill (Point
to your right palm) OK. And you think he's real cool,
and you're enjoying it and all that ... and then let's
say for whatever reason you break up. You ever BREAK
UP WITH SOMEONE (point to palm) and you go through
that period of mulling it over, and maybe you NOTICE
THE PATTERNS IN HIM THAT RUINED YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP
... or maybe you start to LOOK AT HIM IN A WAY THAT
REALLY MAKES HIM A LOT LESS ATTRACTIVE IN YOUR MIND?
However you would JUST DO THAT! I mean it's so weird
how the mind does all this stuff, but what I'm curious
about is, what would it be like for a person if that
entire process that usually takes months, what would
it be like if that entire process were to TAKE PLACE
INSTANTANEOUSLY (snap your fingers in her face) in
someone's mind? It'd be like (wave your hand in her
face) YOU COULDN'T SEE HIS PICTURE ANY MORE IN YOUR
MIND. Every time you tried it'd be like something was
just wiping it right out. And that's how you'd know
that you'd already started to FORGET ALL ABOUT HIM, TO
MAKE HIM LESS IMPORTANT.
Or you know, like, is there someone you used to date,
but now there way out of your mind ... you haven't
even thought about them in a long time? Yeah? Well
notice as you take your finger and point, where do you
see there picture?
Right over there? Isn't that interesting? So if you
were to, FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY (hold up your palm,
push it to where she pointed), it'd be like he gets
stuck in the same place. And of course you might think
to yourself, "but I want to put him back".
You might think you might think that ... until you
REALLY NOTICE that from over there, from this
perspective, you really can SEE ALL THE THINGS in him
and about him you don't like ... something that over
time, would really cause you to dump him.
And when that happens it's a little sad, but it's also
a nice thing, because it allows you to CREATE AN
OPENING FOR SOMEONE NEW. (point to yourself) I know
that's how it can GO DOWN WITH ME (point to your
dickee!)
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