PUA Forum :: If a girl likes you, it doesn't matter how stupid you act ?

That's been my principle: if a girl likes you, she will still like you no matter how dumb you act. For example, if I get drunk at a party and do something offensive like squeezing a girls' butt, if she rejects me then I know that even on my best behavior she would have rejected me.

The corollary is that if she is not attracted to you, you can increase your IQ to Einstein levels, you can drive an M3, you can be the perfect gentleman, etc, etc, IT WONT HELP.

CONCLUSION: Just be yourself.

Anyone disagree?

Go around squeezing random chicks tits and asses then report back on your findings. Better yet, find a girl you know likes you, go out with her and carry on like that then try score her. Tell us what you come back with.

Or how about you go to a high class function with a date and dress like a bum. See if the girl will still accept you then.

some guys don't mind if they have to "impress" her if she's hot, if you mind that, then maybe you'll mind the next time you have to do it, and the next time, so yea

One thing you need to understand is no woman is going to appreciate someone who is being cheap even if they're really poor. It's a massive negative regardless of your understanding or logic behind it. Dinner isn't just dinner, it's an event; a place that's a big deal. If a woman doesn't appreciate a cheap first date in a cheap ass restaurant you can't hold it to her. There are simple standards that are expected and because you failed to meet that standard doesn't mean a woman should be okay with it.

Author:	Mr_Deadlift [ Fri May 30, 2014 6:11 am ]
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That's been my principle: if a girl likes you, she will still like you no matter how dumb you act. For example, if I get drunk at a party and do something offensive like squeezing a girls' butt, if she rejects me then I know that even on my best behavior she would have rejected me. The corollary is that if she is not attracted to you, you can increase your IQ to Einstein levels, you can drive an M3, you can be the perfect gentleman, etc, etc, IT WONT HELP. CONCLUSION: Just be yourself. Anyone disagree?

Author:	Pikeman85 [ Fri May 30, 2014 2:34 pm ]
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Yes. This is completely and utterly wrong. How you behave is probably the MOST important aspect of attracting a woman. "Just be yourself" is dating advice for girls.

Author:	GamesSN [ Fri May 30, 2014 2:42 pm ]
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Go around squeezing random chicks tits and asses then report back on your findings. Better yet, find a girl you know likes you, go out with her and carry on like that then try score her. Tell us what you come back with. Or how about you go to a high class function with a date and dress like a bum. See if the girl will still accept you then.

Author:	staaahp [ Fri May 30, 2014 3:21 pm ]
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Quote: That's been my principle: if a girl likes you, she will still like you no matter how dumb you act. For example, if I get drunk at a party and do something offensive like squeezing a girls' butt, if she rejects me then I know that even on my best behavior she would have rejected me. The corollary is that if she is not attracted to you, you can increase your IQ to Einstein levels, you can drive an M3, you can be the perfect gentleman, etc, etc, IT WONT HELP. CONCLUSION: Just be yourself. Anyone disagree? yes, i actually agree with you, although you are using a hyperbole with the butt squeezing. most women, but not everyone is the same, most women can just look at you, the way you move, read your mind w/e and get an idea how you live and decide if they like it. what you say in the moment and stuff is just that to them, what you said in the moment, how you acted that one time when u were drunk.

Author:	Mr_Deadlift [ Fri May 30, 2014 3:31 pm ]
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Quote: Go around squeezing random chicks tits and asses then report back on your findings. Better yet, find a girl you know likes you, go out with her and carry on like that then try score her. Tell us what you come back with. Or how about you go to a high class function with a date and dress like a bum. See if the girl will still accept you then. Of course, if you embarrass her in public she'll be pissed at you. Now that I think about it, there is value to acting super-nice/gentlemanly , but it only works with superficial, selfish chicks. Once I took out a girl to dinner and she didnt like my choice of restaurant because it was too cheap (it was a cheap place, I admit). So I failed to fuck her that night, and she pretty much told me why. She had no understanding for my poor student status. Is it worth it bending over backwards for such women?

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Author:	staaahp [ Fri May 30, 2014 3:37 pm ]
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some guys don't mind if they have to "impress" her if she's hot, if you mind that, then maybe you'll mind the next time you have to do it, and the next time, so yea

Author:	GamesSN [ Fri May 30, 2014 3:41 pm ]
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Just like anyone elses understanding: If you don't have the money why bring someone out to a restaurant that's really cheap when you don't have the money? Why not just go on a cheap but enjoyable date like dinner in yours or a walk and cinema? Dinner is a big deal. When you ask someone out it's socially understood that you go out with the intention of trying to bring them to a nice enough place. There's a difference in your understanding and others. Just because you're a student doesn't mean you can take someone out on a date and have them accept the fact that you're poor as a student. Taking them somewhere cheap is just cheap. Conversely having a cheap home made meal is cheap but it's also nice and acceptable. A cheap meal at Nandos for a first date isn't acceptable. One thing you need to understand is no woman is going to appreciate someone who is being cheap even if they're really poor. It's a massive negative regardless of your understanding or logic behind it. Dinner isn't just dinner, it's an event; a place that's a big deal. If a woman doesn't appreciate a cheap first date in a cheap ass restaurant you can't hold it to her. There are simple standards that are expected and because you failed to meet that standard doesn't mean a woman should be okay with it.

Author:	Mr_Deadlift [ Fri May 30, 2014 4:09 pm ]
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Quote: some guys don't mind if they have to "impress" her if she's hot, if you mind that, then maybe you'll mind the next time you have to do it, and the next time, so yea You're right, it's more about me not willing to have to impress her over and over again.

Author:	Mr_Deadlift [ Fri May 30, 2014 4:12 pm ]
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Quote: One thing you need to understand is no woman is going to appreciate someone who is being cheap even if they're really poor. It's a massive negative regardless of your understanding or logic behind it. Dinner isn't just dinner, it's an event; a place that's a big deal. If a woman doesn't appreciate a cheap first date in a cheap ass restaurant you can't hold it to her. There are simple standards that are expected and because you failed to meet that standard doesn't mean a woman should be okay with it. Appreciate the feedback. Maybe I should adjust my behavior a little.

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