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Author:  disguise [ Mon Mar 03, 2008 11:31 am ]
Post subject:  Anyone HELP!!! Making day 2

OK recently i hooked up with a girl who is what I think a HB8.5 extremely nice and everything.... :D The next day i msged her an didnt get a reply till late, then i didnt write back again till the next day .... I really think she is awesome and would like to meet up with again but I don't know what to do next, any ideas??

Author:  Esperanto [ Mon Mar 03, 2008 12:43 pm ]
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I don't know what your age is and whether or not that makes a difference, but I would call her. You've already hooked up with her, so show her that you care by leaving an actual voice message. You can continue to review your message over and over until you get it right. And if you talk to her, even better! Basically, you've already hooked up with this girl, so this thing can only go a couple of ways based on what her motivations for hooking up with you were:

1) One night stand/fling - Yes, girls do this too...though not as much as guys. You should be able to tell if this was a possibility based on the circumstances in which you hooked up with this girl and how well you knew her.

2) She likes you. If thats the case, the calling her will only expedite things since she WANTS to talk to you and not text back and forth.

If you're in situation 2, you are golden. If you're in situation 1, its possible to hook up with her again and turn this into a repeated fling, but you've got to know how to do that (selectively ignoring her, being casual about the whole thing, and setting up situations to do it again very smoothly). Basically, you've got to make her think what you did was no big deal and that doing it again also comes without consequences. However, since you've already been texting her, I don't think you've got much of a shot of pulling this off. It sounds like you dig this chick, though, so you shouldn't be shooting for this anyways. So you've texted her already and she knows you like her. Call her up on a Thursday or so and find out her weekend plans. Have a few possible dates in mind already so that based on what she says you can conform a date to her schedule. Keep it casual and loose, and don't act needy. If she likes you, she'll make it a point to see you. If not, you're better off and at least you'll know sooner rather than later. Oh, and don't take a "no" as a definite sign she's not into you. Goodluck.

Author:  disguise [ Tue Mar 04, 2008 6:13 am ]
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Cheers dude appreciate the help I will try this thursday to see if I can make things happen :P

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