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| Author: | CountRedRover [ Thu May 22, 2014 5:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | This girl almost has me by the balls |
So this girl I've been talking to for like 3 weeks is fucking with me, and I clearly see it, but not sure how to go about it. When were making out while isolated, she will just stop moving her mouth completely, and I'm just like, wtf. (she knows ppl want what they cant have; escalation, so shes stopping that) When texting while trying to sexualy escalate things, she'll randomly stop texting or text something silly to throw it all off. Hard negs haven't really worked, makes me look like a complete dick to her, but light negs have when it comes to building attraction. I'm just trying to figure out what to do when this happens again. I can already see myself falling into that needy category, but I'm really fucking trying to stay away from that. I don't want her conditioning the interactions, nor do I want to fall in the friend category. I want basically a role reversal. Any advice would be GREAT. |
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| Author: | hopeforthebest [ Thu May 22, 2014 6:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
Is she a virgin? That would kind of explain it. -Lindsay |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Thu May 22, 2014 1:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
You need to flip it on her and be the one who's playing hard to get, yourself. |
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| Author: | Prince516 [ Thu May 22, 2014 6:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
Freeze Out. next time she stops like that or you guys are having an intimate moment, ignore her for a few minutes. stop what your doing with her sit up and check your phone or something. absolutely no touching her. its gona kill the vibe and shes going to try and bring you back in. cuddling with you is the prize! make her work for it! your the boss. |
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| Author: | ConfidenceMatters [ Thu May 22, 2014 7:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
Quote: Freeze Out.
next time she stops like that or you guys are having an intimate moment, ignore her for a few minutes. stop what your doing with her sit up and check your phone or something. absolutely no touching her. its gona kill the vibe and shes going to try and bring you back in. cuddling with you is the prize! make her work for it! your the boss. This. Lot's of this. If it just continues to be a game of cat and mouse just walk away. No point. |
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| Author: | hatem10 [ Thu May 22, 2014 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
Quote: Quote: Freeze Out.
next time she stops like that or you guys are having an intimate moment, ignore her for a few minutes. stop what your doing with her sit up and check your phone or something. absolutely no touching her. its gona kill the vibe and shes going to try and bring you back in. cuddling with you is the prize! make her work for it! your the boss. This. Lot's of this. If it just continues to be a game of cat and mouse just walk away. No point. You need to have boundaries for shit like this and make it clear you won't be some loser who does what she wants. Show her you have standards. Joe |
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| Author: | CountRedRover [ Thu Jun 05, 2014 1:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
Sorry for getting back late guys. Quote: Is she a virgin?
Nope. Not a virgin. But yeah that would make sense if she was. : PQuote: You need to flip it on her and be the one who's playing hard to get, yourself.
I did that! She didn't show too much needyness the first time, but I could tell by her body language she was turned on/pissed because she wasn't in control. Thanks!Quote: Freeze Out.
I did that too! By doing this, I basically conditioned her not to be hard to get,and after repeating this a lot we've been fucking all week. Cheers to everyone who helped me!!
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| Author: | jakemo [ Fri Jun 06, 2014 8:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
if you already closed her would you really care about all this? I mean if a girl I had F**ked was acting like that I would be like thats weird we prolly shouldn't talk anymore "onto the next one" - Jay-Z |
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| Author: | jakemo [ Fri Jun 06, 2014 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: This girl almost has me by the balls |
If not you either need to set it up like this youtu.be/I_-EjXEvH2c I cant post a URL for some reason lol or onto the next one and set it up that way |
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