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Author:  TheEntity [ Wed May 21, 2014 12:02 pm ]
Post subject:  HB9 Asks me out, shows IOIs - but playing hard to get?
Hey dudes,

So, I met this HB9, dancer and law-student (awesome) and we get along great. I get the number and after a couple text conversations she asks me to come out this weekend.

This may sound like a done deal; she show's multiple IOIs through texting and in person (says I'm hot, interesting, has a cheeky name for me) and asking me out in itself is a pretty good indicator of interest.

BUT, she takes literally 24hr to respond to a text. I hate this crap that women do, lol. My texts are quite flirtatious, and not at all needy or plain. I refuse to be a beta fag and text her incessantly if she doesn't reply, and I'll wait before she responds.

Do you guys think she is really interested? I mean from my perspective, if you are into someone you will not make them wait 24hr to respond to them. She could be playing hard to get, but I'm rather inexperienced when women play games - I only really have gone for direct women in the past. (life is so much easier then, lol).

Well what do you guys think, is she playing hard to get or just not interested. She is a HB9-10 so IDK if this is her way of trying to stay in control after asking me out, or if she just doesnt care! :lol:

Thanks lads!

~Entity
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed May 21, 2014 1:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB9 Asks me out, shows IOIs - but playing hard to get?
She's a law student. They can be busy.

If she's also as hot and awesome as you're describing, then she's got 10 other guys blowing up her phone just like you (don't think she doesn't.... she does).

The delay in texting could be due to either of the above factors... or something else entirely... Like maybe she doesn't know you really well and isn't investing too much in you yet.

If she's asked you to come out this weekend, and that's a done deal, then go. Build on what you have with her and escalate. Only way to find out if she's into you.

If she's not and you blow it, doesn't really sound like you're missing out on a lot of engaging conversation anyway :)
Author:  TheEntity [ Wed May 21, 2014 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB9 Asks me out, shows IOIs - but playing hard to get?
Fair point man, and thanks for the reply!

Well I figured out that she must have a few guys interested and who she is interested in, I felt like I wanted t separate myself from that crowd, and not look needy so I don't spam text, or ask why she hasnt replied etc.

But women and their games is just frustrating, I'm a pretty direct guy and I go and get what I want and tell those who I dont give a fuck about exactly that. Some women have that glorious feature, but others well no. :D

Also true, I'm not missing anything if I do fuck up (fingers crossed that doesnt happen :P). Lost more fish in the sea!

Take care

~Entity
Author:  Adonis_Complex [ Wed May 21, 2014 3:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB9 Asks me out, shows IOIs - but playing hard to get?
Text is wishy-washy, I would not read too much into until you have met up and established better chemistry. Some of the girls I have text gave plain and brief responses, and yet were so eager to go out, or come to my place for some fun. On the other hand, I have had girls send pictures, and talk about how sexy I am, etc. while being reluctant to come over/ go out.

You could always try picking up the phone and calling her, otherwise you are stuck deciphering how emotion actually went into the text with (Lol, hahaha, :), !!!)
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