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Author:  Lumberdog [ Wed May 21, 2014 4:47 am ]
Post subject:  How do I become interesting?
I have realised that girls want someone who is interesting and funny. But I think that interesting depends on you lifestyle and things you do. I am daily stoner and I dont think its really good think to talk about with women :D So what should I start doing?
Author:  GamesSN [ Wed May 21, 2014 5:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
Hobbies, college studies, work, movies. Be passionate.

For instance, i'm a college grad. I did a thesis and I know it and the results like the back of my hand. I have scored women that were a lot older than me, with solid jobs, six figure incomes when I haven't had a job simply because I was confident and knew exactly what I was talking about when it came to my thesis. That was a single point to talk about. I have had women literally beg me to read my thesis and ask where to find it because I spoke passionately about it with confidence and fondness.

A thesis or dissertation is a big thing that not a lot of people have but i've also spoken passionately about things such as movies and gone into detail about them. It could be anything once you show a passion and clear drive for the topic, making them want to explore the topics you've spoken about. That's interesting.

And fuck weed. Drop that shit even if it's legal where you are because it's one of the most antisocial and boring topics you could talk about unless, of course, you're talking to a woman who is just mentally driven by the thought of smoking a joint or snorting a few lines of coke. Drop it. No one finds it interesting and it only brings you down regardless of what your perceptions of it are.

If you talk to someone who smokes weed what will they think of you? They probably won't mind if you smoke it. If you don't smoke it then what? They won't mind either. If you talk to someone who doesn't smoke it and you do what will they think of you? Less. If you don't smoke it what will they think? More of you. You have nothing to gain from weed on a social perspective. Zero.
Author:  Adonis_Complex [ Wed May 21, 2014 3:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
In order to be interesting become interested. Talk to women about their interests and themselves. Trust me, they will go on talking for hours.
Author:  Case_sin [ Wed May 21, 2014 6:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
Yeah just let them talk about themselves, they will literally talk for hours and at the end she would feel like you had a great conversation and you didn't have to talk jack shit. But for me, I really like listening to other people.
Author:  GamesSN [ Wed May 21, 2014 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
In order to get them to talk about themselves you have to be seen as interesting enough for them to want to talk to you. Generally you're safe to ask about them and have them prattle on and share things if it's within a social circle or a friend of a friend but if it's some random girl in a club? You need to have built up enough interest prior to having talked to them otherwise they won't show much interest and brush you off.
Author:  Case_sin [ Wed May 21, 2014 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
Wohoo I guess I am interesting enough to talk to haha
Author:  Adonis_Complex [ Wed May 21, 2014 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
For the club or bar, usually it is a good idea to wait women to invite you over. That doesn't mean waiting from them to approach you, and or initiate a conversation with you, women are much more subtle. Usually open body language, smiling, and briefly holding eye contact are pretty good invitations. I suppose the best way to come in if you're not invited is if you're already genuinely having a good time, and have good positive energy. Women hate being bored some if you can invite them in on the fun, then the chances of them being interested in you are much higher. Lastly, women are known for their intuition, so faking like you're having a good time, and offering fun which you do not necessarily have will likely fail.

All that being said, some women will not give you the time of day no matter what. You're better off spending you're time pursing women that are open to enjoying your company, or at least giving you a chance.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed May 21, 2014 11:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
Just be interested (passionate) about what you're talking about. No matter what you're talking about, if you seem interested in it, other people will be too. The girl wants to see what type of person you are. If you absolutely love smoking weed, then show the girl how passionate you are about it. Ask her if she smokes. Ask her what her most profound thought has ever been while she's high if you want.

You can seriously talk about ANYTHING and make it interesting as long as you are genuinely interested in it.
Author:  hopeforthebest [ Thu May 22, 2014 6:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I become interesting?
Women want someone that will show them adventure and live active lives. People in general gravitate towards people where they know they will have a good time with them. And yes, women love to talk. You don't need to be interesting, you just have to pretend to be interested in what they are saying. They will do most of the work in that area. I hang out with stoner kids, but I would never want to date them because if you're doing that all the time then I would think that you won't go far in life and at least for me I think long term. Doing it occasionally is fine, but drop the daily smoke session and go join some clubs or something. Become an active person and hope for the best;)
-Lindsay
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