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| Author: | TimmyR [ Sun May 18, 2014 4:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to escape the Friendzone? |
I have got myself into the worst scenario ever. So I meet this girl in one of my classes at University. I start getting to know her and help her out with class etc because we do group work together (group was assigned to us when we first started the class). Anyway more i get to know her, the more I notice she ticks all the boxes for me. So as you do, I start trying to flirt with her ask her places etc. So as it goes we skipped a few lectures to go get some food, have a coffee, we went out for some drinks and some dancing one night, we have gone to the movies. Things seem to be going pretty well. From her body language and things you could of sworn she was into me. All my friends and all her friends thought something was going on between us. There was this other guy she was interested in, though he pissed her off and wanted to make her wait a month before anything etc and she was totally turned off the guy. So I thought. Then the other day she invites me to come study and the other guy was there. Anyway after this one of her friends tells me that i am considered just a friend. I also know she likes the other guy sort of but doesn't want anything with him. She seemed to flirt with me and took the time to go out places with me. I have totally got myself into a mess here. How do I get out of the friendzone here or should I just cut my loses and just be friends with her? |
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| Author: | JTQatar [ Sun May 18, 2014 7:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to escape the Friendzone? |
So as I can see this is your first post on this forum. Just from reading your short post I can already tell a bunch of mistakes you made and Im certainly NOT what you would call a pro PUA! AT ALL... So the good thing is I been in this situation and thats good for you because I can give you some advice... Quote: I start trying to flirt with her ask her places etc. So as it goes we skipped a few lectures to go get some food, have a coffee, we went out for some drinks and some dancing one night, we have gone to the movies. Things seem to be going pretty well. From her body language and things you could of sworn she was into me. All my friends and all her friends thought something was going on between us.
So you basically took her on "dates" asked her out and what not and never made a move on her? You should have kissed her or AT LEAST perform some kino escalation. Obviously you did non of that. So you came off as a friend and not like a man who wants and desires her. Thats the reason you are in this situation in first place.We see at ALL THE TIME at this forum. Guys ask why they are stuck in friendzone but they never actually made a move! Even if she likes you and has some attraction for you she wont make the first move. Its YOUR Job. Dont waste your time waiting "Oh I have the feeling she likes me. The signs are there. Hopefully she will kiss ME next time" Its not going to happen dude! Now here is what I want you to do next time: Read this important and brilliant guide. You NEED to apply this: majik-s-guide-to-kino-escalation-vt163160.html And I actually wrote a short "how to" about this exact topic. You might read through this as well: how-to-get-out-of-the-friendzone-or-mak ... 76301.html Good luck! |
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| Author: | TimmyR [ Sun May 18, 2014 7:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to escape the Friendzone? |
Yeah im a retard at this stuff. haha. Hindsight is wonderful. Going back there was perfect times to make the first real move. Cheers for the reply. Ill be cruising this forum a lot now haha. |
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| Author: | Mayhem_ [ Mon May 19, 2014 3:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to escape the Friendzone? |
Don't be too worried about it and use this to your advantage. You now have 2 options. Either do things right (get yourself informed) or use her for future occasions when you are more experienced. What has helped me become really good at socialising and everything related to PUA is that i'm at peace with myself. I became more confident, and eventually grew more natural. I also have occassions where i stumble upon situations that i cannot handle perfectly either but atleast i learn without feeling regret. As for what to do if you want to go on. I personally would escalate the next time you meet (Preferably on a date, not a ''during school lunchbreak''). If she throws you off be ready to accept the situation and have her by your side as a potential winggirl. |
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