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| Author: | bwest760 [ Sun May 11, 2014 2:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help with getting back into the game |
Hey guys first time posting here and I need some help with viewing myself better. I'm 22 a good looking guy who surfs, snowboards, skates and is fit. I have a nice car but one thing I cant really get all too many girls, even though everyone thinks I get a lot. I don't put a high value on myself when I get with a hot girl I doubt myself and think why is she into me. Also I'm not that good at making first moves or know when the right time to make contact is. I usually go for chicks who break the ice first and end up getting to shy and forcing myself not to pursue or how to go about pursuing her. I also tend to get oneitis pretty easy. So I was wondering if anyone could help with advice. |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sun May 11, 2014 12:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with getting back into the game |
I know what you mean brother. But think of it like this. If you dont put A high value on yourself....who else will? Let alone women. Be confident in who you are and what you have acomplished. Just think back to past successes |
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| Author: | bwest760 [ Mon May 12, 2014 6:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with getting back into the game |
So how do I do that I'm clueless really. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Tue May 13, 2014 6:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with getting back into the game |
Quote: I know what you mean brother. But think of it like this. That's the truth for all of life, noone will believe in you if you don't even believe in yourself
If you dont put A high value on yourself....who else will? Let alone women. Quote: Also I'm not that good at making first moves or know when the right time to make contact is. I usually go for chicks who break the ice first and end up getting to shy and forcing myself not to pursue or how to go about pursuing her. My favorite kino guide http://www.scribd.com/doc/16768511/Vin- ... ion-Ladder with this it's almost seamless going from brushing up against her to overt touching, the right time to make contact is always, if you go up the ladder and she doesn't like something go down a step for a second, then go back up againhow do you gain confidence? you have to actually do something, you don't gain confidence by sitting at your computer thinking happy thoughts, go do something, party, talk to women, go snowboarding and just have general talk with girls while waiting for the lift, to be successful don't compare yourself to others, just take a step "hey I talked to a ton of girls today", the next day "hey i got a number", next day "hey i got a date" not "well i talked to a girl but my friend talked to 20 im a failure"; you're improving yourself, not others |
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