So I need some advice. I met a girl through my best friend when we went out to a club last thursday. The girl works with my friend. She met up with us on saturday as well and I talked to her a little more and she seems really cool. I want to hang out with her some more but casually like we did before going out somewhere with friends. I didn't get her number but I did add her on facebook. Tomorrow is the day I assumed I would see her again since she tends to go out on Thursdays with my friend and I was going too. Well my friend isn't going out tomorrow. He has to stay home and study for finals. I was thinking of going out with some other friends and messaging her on Facebook to see if she wants to join us. The way I planned this would be to send her something around 8, 8:30 saying "Hey, what's up? Are you at home cramming for finals like my friends tonight
" If she says yes, then I'd say something like "Yeah Hopefully everyone isn't doing the same thing or it's going to be a really boring night out." If she says no, that she is going out I could say "Oh well me and a few friends are going to X, you should meet us there later". And if she says nothing at all, I just feel like a creep who should have not messaged her at all. Let me know what you guys think. And time is of the essence since this is tomorrow night. Thanks guys