Holy shit, you almost became a stalker
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| Author: | charlyjunior [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 2:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | GF broke off with me and want her back |
Hello, I really need some help on this, hopefully an expert or someone with a similar experience could advise me. So I was really good friend with a girl that lived on the west coast (I live in the east coast so we were pretty far away). Because of work I went to her city and asked for a couple of days off to be with her (as friends) and know her city. Something happened that we ended up hooking up on the trip and I completely fell for her. After this trip it was a coincidence thar we both went to our home city for a couple of weeks. We hang there and chemistry was so intense I ended up asking her to be my gf and she accepted. We knew long distance was hard but we figured we would find a way. First couple of monthd were ok, I visited her and things were going great. However afer a while I started noticing she stopped responding me so much and generally not as happy when we talked. (I called/messaged her A LOT) She went on vacations for a week and I lost it, I became so needy and she wouldnt answer me, I called her like 40 times over the week. We talked after she returned from her trip and she told me I was invading her space so much she didnt want to continue in the relationship. I kept messaging her and sending her needy messages for the last week. I now realize this was the mistake I was making which pushed her away from me. I have stopped this, however I really want her back. I have been relocated for work and will be living 4 hours away from her (driving distance). In 1 week I will be moving to that closer city and will have 2 weeks before starting work. Tell me what do you think of my plan: I am planning on appearing randomly in her apartment and see what happens (will automatically try and kiss her, dont know what her reaction will be, she probably will stop me). I can visit her in 1 week or in 2 weeks and we broke off 1 week ago. I will be trying to upload some pictures with some female friends to try and make her jealous. In the meantime I wont be messaging her (she doesnt message me back anyways) What do you think of my plan? Should I visit her in 1 week or wait and visit her in 2 weeks? She is a solid 10 and shes very easy going so everybody hits on her so Im scared someone will get her. Thank you for your advise guys and sorry for the long post |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Hate to bust your bubble here Bro, but your going to have to move on. It's just over. You got uber needy! To girls needy guys are like Wedgies, they just can't pull them out of their ass fast enough and they won’t care who’s looking! Learn from this and GFTOW. |
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| Author: | Playboi_ [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 3:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Dude, appearing at her apartment randomly? That is creepy as f*ck. If she knows of you living closer and does not attempt to rekindle what you guys had, move on. It is a bitch sometimes to come to that conclusion but way too many women to be stressing. |
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| Author: | charlyjunior [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 3:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Yeah yeah I guess Ive freaked out a ton. Been very helpful talking with guys like you thanks for your support. We've been close friends since our childhood so I dont know why I thought it wouldnt be creepy at the time. Ill try to move on and do my best. One last thing on this topic. Las week i messaged her a ton and didnt get responses so I guess we didnt end uo in the best terms. Chances are we will see each other again, his brother id one of my best friends, weve got many frienfs in common and we always go back homr for holidays and see each other in reunions and stuff. Should I send her one last message like a goodbye and say her slmething or just let it go? Thanks |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 4:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Quote: or just let it go?
Jut let it go.
Thanks |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 5:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Quote: Yeah yeah I guess Ive freaked out a ton. Been very helpful talking with guys like you thanks for your support.
Forget about her as much as you can, talk with other girls, hit on other girls, improve yourself. When you latch on to a single girl like that it's because of insecurities within yourself. You fear that never again would you ever meet a good looking cool chick that would want to be with you and it fucks with your head. So you need to work on yourself before you try to get her back. Get yourself in a good place and the next time yall are forced to see each other you need to show just how different you are and how good you're doing. But from everything you typed up it sounds like this is far beyond salvageable. Best of luck.
We've been close friends since our childhood so I dont know why I thought it wouldnt be creepy at the time. Ill try to move on and do my best. One last thing on this topic. Las week i messaged her a ton and didnt get responses so I guess we didnt end uo in the best terms. Chances are we will see each other again, his brother id one of my best friends, weve got many frienfs in common and we always go back homr for holidays and see each other in reunions and stuff. Should I send her one last message like a goodbye and say her slmething or just let it go? Thanks |
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| Author: | Apples185 [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 6:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Holy shit, you almost became a stalker
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 29, 2014 6:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Hey man, I skimmed through this whole thing, but if you want to give me a shorter concise version reach out to me in my inbox and i'll be able to tailor something a little more directly at you. Anyway.. I give this advice to another member recently and judging from what I've skimmed through you maybe able to grab a jewel or two from it. "There is no concrete evidence to back what I am about to say. Its more of a metaphysical thing, but what I've experienced and what many people I've known have experienced is women can always hold out for a moment longer than the point where it seems almost unbearable for men. By unbearable I mean.. At the point where you are feeling like " Fuck this shit.. I'm going to just call/text/ her". When its so strong is the point at which she is thinking about contacting you the most. Energy always follows thought. Now let me say; if you reach out to contact her at this point, you will be putting off an opportunity for you to learn the power of letting the woman go. And this is a lesson all men must learn before they can become truly successful with women. You only learn this lesson by letting go out of choice, not necessity. Men tend to thank they've let women go after they texted her 10 times, called her 3 and she ignore them. Thats not letting the woman go. Thats called picking the only option you have left. You let go out of necessity, not choice. So you don't acquire the stronger sense of presence/aura that attracts women that a man acquires from letting go of women he still has a chance with. You don't grow - you don't learn. You stay on your current level. I could go on and on about this, but the moral of the passage is; if you're interested in growing in the long run, I would leave this one alone. She may reach out - she may not, but what you will acquire will be much more beneficial than any one relationship ever could be. Now if that isn't your interest and you feel both comfortable and content with where you are on your journey. Call her don't text. Call her up and let her know that you'd still like to continue to see her. Be cool and be calm; like you've been busy in life lately, but you've accomplished a few things and you now have time to date again. A woman is always responsive to that kind of energy. With all due love in respect, Peace bro." |
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| Author: | Playboi_ [ Thu May 01, 2014 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: GF broke off with me and want her back |
Eddie F spittin knowledge. Let her go bud. You say you are best friends with her brother, you already have a reason to possibly see her again. But like Eddie said, make it your own decision to let this one stray. |
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