Hi guys! Completely new to this but I'm willing to learn/experiment
So I met these two girls a few weeks ago in a cafe. One of them is an HB8. Chatted for a while.
Got their numbers both as they said we should keep talking in spanish (I've been learning spanish
for a while and they were both Spanish, that's how I approached them. I think they liked chatting with
me a lot and thought I was cute, smart as I'm not bad with the language at all but they probably didn't
think too much of me sexually as I didn't escalate or anything). Saw them the day after during the day
but I didn't feel that they were hot for me. I felt I was turning into their best gay friend as they were talking
about girly random stuff next to me. Ouch! I left soon after so that it doesn't worsen.
I know this is no excuse but since they don't speak English, it's hard for me to be witty and stuff.. but well..
And well I was a bit too much like: 'Ohh it's exciting you speak spanish and shit'. My mistake!
Anyways, I texted the HB8 today and asked "when can I see you this week?". She replied saying Wednesday
night would work as she is going in holidays on Friday. I haven't replied yet, but I need to soon.
Question:
1/ How can I turn it around and get a close in one night? (she'll be away travelling for a couple of weeks as I said above)
2/ Should I meet her at a bar, chat, try to escalate, then head to mine for a "movie"? (knowing that would need
a 5/10 minutes walk in the other direction of downtown) or should I ask her to meet up straight at mine to
"watch a movie or something"?