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hmmm well i wouldn't apologize, that a DLV as to be fair what you said was in a playful tone.

Personally i would just wait it out for a bit longer, have you checked to see if she has read your message? (you can do that on myspace by looking at your sent message). Play it cool man. If she doesn't respond just reopen the conversation with something fun. \

-- T!im3

Go with the above advice and if she doesn't respond, then consider it a practice. You're gonna make mistakes, you're gonna be too cocky sometimes, you're gonna have girls that lose interest, or that aren't interested in the first place, but you will learn from it all and it will make you better.

Through highschool and back when I was living in dorms, I was constantly told I was an asshole, too cocky, or a jerk. Hell, I've had girls throw books at me in the middle of english class and I've made girls cry, but it made me who I am today and I've learned a lot from it. You'll learn more from pushing those boundries and pissing people off, than you will from not pushing them and never getting a reaction from them.

I don't think you were being an asshole especially because you put the smiley face there to make it clear you were joking around. I would just pretend it never happened and contact her another time - but don't address that situtation... just say "what's up - how's it going?" next time you contact her.

On the other hand - if she's an intelligent girl she may have been turned off by your misspelling of the word "too" - you wrote "to" when it was supposed to be "too". That's probably not the case, but for the future be careful of your spellings on words like "your" and "you're" - "there", "their" and they're", etc. Women pick up on this kind of stuff more than you realize.

Author:	jdogg [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 5:43 pm ]
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Ok so during a myspace conversation i said something that she thought was a little mean, then i responded back with a good compliment and this was her response.... Her: haha thanx jason! Me: Just dont get to big of an ego now She hasnt responded and its been 2 days now, lol. Sometimes it takes her a few days to get back to me but i have a feeling that she might have taken that the wrong way. Was i being an asshole? or think she took that the wrong way? and what should i do at this point... just wait for her to eventually reply? or maybe send a message appologizing about maybe coming off as an asshole? any advice would be appreciated...

Author:	tiime [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 6:02 pm ]
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hmmm well i wouldn't apologize, that a DLV as to be fair what you said was in a playful tone. Personally i would just wait it out for a bit longer, have you checked to see if she has read your message? (you can do that on myspace by looking at your sent message). Play it cool man. If she doesn't respond just reopen the conversation with something fun. \ -- T!im3

Author:	Rye Lee [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 6:42 pm ]
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Go with the above advice and if she doesn't respond, then consider it a practice. You're gonna make mistakes, you're gonna be too cocky sometimes, you're gonna have girls that lose interest, or that aren't interested in the first place, but you will learn from it all and it will make you better. Through highschool and back when I was living in dorms, I was constantly told I was an asshole, too cocky, or a jerk. Hell, I've had girls throw books at me in the middle of english class and I've made girls cry, but it made me who I am today and I've learned a lot from it. You'll learn more from pushing those boundries and pissing people off, than you will from not pushing them and never getting a reaction from them.

Author:	jdogg [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 7:41 pm ]
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Quote: hmmm well i wouldn't apologize, that a DLV as to be fair what you said was in a playful tone. Personally i would just wait it out for a bit longer, have you checked to see if she has read your message? (you can do that on myspace by looking at your sent message). Play it cool man. If she doesn't respond just reopen the conversation with something fun. \ -- T!im3 Yes she did read it... i learned that trick from my ex girlfriend lol.

Author:	jdogg [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 7:43 pm ]
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Quote: Go with the above advice and if she doesn't respond, then consider it a practice. You're gonna make mistakes, you're gonna be too cocky sometimes, you're gonna have girls that lose interest, or that aren't interested in the first place, but you will learn from it all and it will make you better. Through highschool and back when I was living in dorms, I was constantly told I was an asshole, too cocky, or a jerk. Hell, I've had girls throw books at me in the middle of english class and I've made girls cry, but it made me who I am today and I've learned a lot from it. You'll learn more from pushing those boundries and pissing people off, than you will from not pushing them and never getting a reaction from them. I appreciate your guys advice I think what im going to do now is just wait it out and if i dont hear from her maybe in a week ill send her a funny message or something... and i think i need to lay off the negs a little and tone down the cocky-funny just a little bit with this girl.

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Author:	ArtistryInMotion [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:06 am ]
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I don't think you were being an asshole especially because you put the smiley face there to make it clear you were joking around. I would just pretend it never happened and contact her another time - but don't address that situtation... just say "what's up - how's it going?" next time you contact her. On the other hand - if she's an intelligent girl she may have been turned off by your misspelling of the word "too" - you wrote "to" when it was supposed to be "too". That's probably not the case, but for the future be careful of your spellings on words like "your" and "you're" - "there", "their" and they're", etc. Women pick up on this kind of stuff more than you realize.

Author:	jdogg [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:18 am ]
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Quote: I don't think you were being an asshole especially because you put the smiley face there to make it clear you were joking around. I would just pretend it never happened and contact her another time - but don't address that situtation... just say "what's up - how's it going?" next time you contact her. On the other hand - if she's an intelligent girl she may have been turned off by your misspelling of the word "too" - you wrote "to" when it was supposed to be "too". That's probably not the case, but for the future be careful of your spellings on words like "your" and "you're" - "there", "their" and they're", etc. Women pick up on this kind of stuff more than you realize. That better not be the case considering she spelled "Thanks" with an X... Lmao but... she IS an english major :/

Author:	kodierer [ Mon Mar 03, 2008 7:58 am ]
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Perhaps the message you sent didn't require response, or she didn't know what to say in return.

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