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Author:  jdubin94 [ Thu Mar 27, 2014 9:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
I believe it's alright upon first meeting a girl to see if she has a boyfriend. It's pretty crucial information to know..

But if she says yes, is that the last time you should ever talk about that subject again? I think I read somewhere once that if you bring him up, the only thing this will do is give her second thoughts about getting with you.

But on the other hand, I'm really f***ing curious to know if she's still with that lo-life.
Author:  anthonypham [ Thu Mar 27, 2014 9:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
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I believe it's alright upon first meeting a girl to see if she has a boyfriend. It's pretty crucial information to know..

But if she says yes, is that the last time you should ever talk about that subject again? I think I read somewhere once that if you bring him up, the only thing this will do is give her second thoughts about getting with you.

But on the other hand, I'm really f***ing curious to know if she's still with that lo-life.
I must say, your 'issue' has been treated multiple times in many PUA material.

And the answer is: NO, you don't mention the potential bf!! Why? very simple, you are the PUA. You game girls you want, not the ones that are left over. Whether or not a girls has a bf, if your game is solid, you can seduce her. If your game is not solid, she WILL mention her boyfriend. Even if she hasn't a bf!! :)
Author:  jdubin94 [ Thu Mar 27, 2014 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
Quote:

I must say, your 'issue' has been treated multiple times in many PUA material.

And the answer is: NO, you don't mention the potential bf!! Why? very simple, you are the PUA. You game girls you want, not the ones that are left over. Whether or not a girls has a bf, if your game is solid, you can seduce her. If your game is not solid, she WILL mention her boyfriend. Even if she hasn't a bf!! :)
What about right after I f-close her? :P
Author:  GamesSN [ Thu Mar 27, 2014 11:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
Never talk about the boyfriend unless you're coming in under the radar in which case run Straw man on her. Basically talk her boyfriend up so that he can't live up to the expectations you set, she'll see this then think less of him.

Just presume when you meet a girl and she's talking to you she doesn't have a boyfriend. If she does and she doesn't bring him up at all she's unfaithful and not your fault.
Author:  JakeP [ Fri Mar 28, 2014 3:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
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I must say, your 'issue' has been treated multiple times in many PUA material.

And the answer is: NO, you don't mention the potential bf!! Why? very simple, you are the PUA. You game girls you want, not the ones that are left over. Whether or not a girls has a bf, if your game is solid, you can seduce her. If your game is not solid, she WILL mention her boyfriend. Even if she hasn't a bf!! :)
What about right after I f-close her? :P
Karma's a bitch.
Author:  Damien Cash [ Fri Mar 28, 2014 3:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
The core issue is asking. Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to, simple as that.
Author:  anthonypham [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 1:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
Quote:
Quote:

I must say, your 'issue' has been treated multiple times in many PUA material.

And the answer is: NO, you don't mention the potential bf!! Why? very simple, you are the PUA. You game girls you want, not the ones that are left over. Whether or not a girls has a bf, if your game is solid, you can seduce her. If your game is not solid, she WILL mention her boyfriend. Even if she hasn't a bf!! :)
What about right after I f-close her? :P
Then why you ask then?
Author:  breedlove465 [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 2:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
If I'm in a relationship and a girl comes on to me, it is my job to say "hey sorry, I'm taken." If I fail to do that, it ain't the chicks fault. Like wise, if I hit on a girl, and she doesn't mention the bf, or if she mentions him but is still up for hanging out or fucking, it's not my issue. I'm not his buddy, and for all I know she's about to break up with him anyway.
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
If she doesn't bring him up, why should you?
Author:  jacob palmer [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
you dont ask her. You include it in your game for example, when teasing her say "I dont know how your bf puts up with you" or "your bf is a lucky guy" etc..
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 4:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is it a bad idea to ask anything about her boyfriend?
The boyfriend isn't your problem.

If a girl thinks you're an upgrade, she won't generally mention it. Girls almost always have someone on the hook before they break up with someone else. Lowers their risk.
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