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Author:  jdelt51 [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  How to respond to a shit test?

Im very short and skinny and Ive noticed when I girl is interested in me she brings up how I look like a baby or your so short or so tiny, etc. What is a good response to show you don't really care, or should I just completely ignore what they said and move it to a different subject.

Author:  JakeP [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 11:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to respond to a shit test?

Just be a little cocky and have the attitude that they're negging you, so it's perfectly acceptable to neg them too, in a comedic way. Start looking for flaws in women before you open them. Start thinking like you're a stand-up comic who's always looking for the funny side in everything, someone who can make a joke at anyone's expense, you'll get good at this if you do it.

Someone says "OMG, your so tiny", don't flinch and make a comment about their appearance in a slightly comedic/sarcastic way. This shows that you guys are on the same level. She can't establish her dominance over you or your incompatibility. You need to deftly point out and remind her (and others) that she's no supermodel, either. Fortunately for you, women are super-sensitive and almost every single one of them has some insane hang-up about her appearance.

Just don't be TOO mean or up front, i.e. "Yea, well you have a big nose!". If a girl said something like that to me, I'd literally remind her that she's "[You're] no supermodel either, honey." with a slight, sly smile and laugh and then MOVE THE CONVERSATION ON (dropping the mic, whatever you wanna call it). That way, SHE can fill in the blanks without you having to guess what her appearance hang-up is. If she hates her so-called "fat thighs" (I call those Thanksgiving and Christmas, because there's always something good to eat between them) you probably have no way of guessing that in a dark nightclub within minutes of meeting her. If you say the above with a knowing look and air of confidence (that she is NOT too good for you; she actually is now in your reality and you are screening to see if SHE is even good enough at all for YOU), she'll often get the hint and she'll immediately think about her secret insecurity or hang-up that she believes everyone else notices, just like she does. Needless to say, this works better the more insecure the woman is. Once again, most women are very secure about some aspect of their appearance.

You just have to be confident enough to show that you're not affected by it and that it's not stopping you from hitting on her. You have to walk the walk to sell your confidence for them to buy it. It's more important HOW you say something than what you say, hence why you need to say it with confidence and by subtly retaliating you're showing that you are NOT SCARED of her and her childish shit tests and attempts at disqualification. If you do this correctly, it will convey, with a lot of self-confidence and a few gentle yet pointed words, something much more meaningful that would take too long to say and wouldn't be as powerful if you actually spoke it, something like:

"Hey, don't try that bullshit on me, I'm not scared of you or women because am a sexually powerful man. And for that matter who the fuck do you think you are with your big nose/fat thighs/belly fat/thin hair/man feet? Too good for me? Yea, right, you'd be lucky to get this dick BUT, because I'm a generous and forgiving guy, I'll give a blemished girl like you a chance for some fun. But don't fuck with me - you're already on thin ice with that big nose/fat thighs/belly fat/thin hair/man feet of yours."

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