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Author:  Jelle [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  E-mail
Hey,

I'm going to go to university next year and I applied for a taster (Google translate. It's a day where you follow a student around to see what the study is like). She mailed me about when I should come and she made a little error in her e-mail. Firstly i would like to say that I know she didn't do it on purpose, but I would like to just bust her balls about it and see how she reacts. It's just testing but I m wondering how you would write her back.

Her e-mail (I transleted it):
If I'm correct you applied for a taster. You could join me in class de next days: Tuesday, wednesday and friday. I suggest tuesday because it's the day with the most classes. I've got exams coming up so I'm unavailable the next few weeks. You can arrange a date with me after my exams.

The error is (and you should all have noted if my translation is right) that she implies that we are going to date, while she meant to pick a date for the taster. I would really like to bust her balls a little bit and see how she'll react to it when we finally meet (or see if I'll get an e-mail back again). I was thinking about sending something like this:

I usually don't date people I've never met before. But maybe if you're really nice when I meet you we can hang out sometime.

The rest of the e-mail is (I think) irrelevant so I won't bore you with it. Do you think this would be a good thing to say or do you recommend sending her something else?

- Jelle
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: E-mail
Just say "Ok, cool!" meet up with her in a few weeks... And then worry about "gaming" her.

The girl made a typo. It doesn't mean she wants to marry you.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 4:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: E-mail
Lol

You don't have to look for an opportunity or even to bust a girls balls to attract her, because YOU are the opportunity. And besides, women don't have balls. That whole ball busting thing is cute, but its only an attack on the masculine front a lot of women are portraying today. So I guess its mens ways of putting them back into that feminine state. However if you simply just communicate with the feminine from the beginning, they will be just that.

Anyway, theres nothing wrong with you making a joke in a email as long as its funny. And I personally don't see the message you're thinking about as funny. Its just a bit try hard, even though its in good spirits. You are already rejecting her and thats not going to get you in. A message like:

" Lol I'm in. We can date.. How's tuesday ? :P "

Would get you further than that; granted she's even sharing this possible fantasy of her taser partner being a romeo. Its your call man, just remember that she's no one to impress and she doesn't have balls. Draw women in and love them and you'll get a lot further. If you must bust balls, do so when they're getting out of hand.

Peace & Love
Author:  Jelle [ Tue Mar 25, 2014 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: E-mail
Quote:
Lol

You don't have to look for an opportunity or even to bust a girls balls to attract her, because YOU are the opportunity. And besides, women don't have balls. That whole ball busting thing is cute, but its only an attack on the masculine front a lot of women are portraying today. So I guess its mens ways of putting them back into that feminine state. However if you simply just communicate with the feminine from the beginning, they will be just that.

Anyway, theres nothing wrong with you making a joke in a email as long as its funny. And I personally don't see the message you're thinking about as funny. Its just a bit try hard, even though its in good spirits. You are already rejecting her and thats not going to get you in. A message like:

" Lol I'm in. We can date.. How's tuesday ? :P "

Would get you further than that; granted she's even sharing this possible fantasy of her taser partner being a romeo. Its your call man, just remember that she's no one to impress and she doesn't have balls. Draw women in and love them and you'll get a lot further. If you must bust balls, do so when they're getting out of hand.

Peace & Love
Yeah I know she doesn't think anything about it. I read in either Skinggrad's or David Deangelo's book that you should 'bust balls' (yeah, I also know girls don't have balls) when they give you an opportunity so I thought: let's run it past the experts ;)

Thanks for your answer man!
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