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Author:  Straightforward [ Thu Mar 20, 2014 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  When a girl does not respond
You meet a girl, get her number, go on a date, leave her when she is on a high note, text her later that evening what her plans for tomorrow at 7pm are and get no reply till 7pm. What to do? Is that the famously stupid h2g-game?
Author:  ChimeranPanda [ Thu Mar 20, 2014 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When a girl does not respond
Is it buyer's remorse? How far did you escalate during the date?
Author:  Straightforward [ Thu Mar 20, 2014 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When a girl does not respond
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Is it buyer's remorse? How far did you escalate during the date?
At the end, she didn't want to leave but at the same time didn't want to be kissed. She told me she had to go as she had to get up at 7am but we still walked around a bit. Whenever I tried to kiss her, she moved her head away. So finally I said: Alright, I'll text you and I left her hand.

Within the date we walked by my house and each time I invited her in which she declined with "I don't know you".

Should I at some point(having experienced this repeatedly with the same girl, the same night) just insist like "Alright, want to see my aquarium?". "I don't know you". "If you don't come to my place now, you will never know me" and then just go mute.

Yes, it could be buyer's remorse. At the same time, I am supposed to escalate and move things forward am I not?

Also she asked me about whether I was faithful before and she asked whether I was looking for a relationship or just sex(both without having kissed even). Don't you ask all of that after having had sex?
Author:  ChimeranPanda [ Thu Mar 20, 2014 8:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When a girl does not respond
In my opinion, she things you're a player. Are you good looking and good at PUA? You'll get that sometimes.

I haven't thought about how to overcome that, but my guess is that my diagnosis addresses the issue.
Author:  BITmixit [ Fri Mar 21, 2014 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When a girl does not respond
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Within the date we walked by my house and each time I invited her in which she declined with "I don't know you".

Should I at some point(having experienced this repeatedly with the same girl, the same night) just insist like "Alright, want to see my aquarium?". "I don't know you". "If you don't come to my place now, you will never know me" and then just go mute.
Nah, make it sound more casual. Like its not a big deal then she'll feel more weird about saying no because its not a big deal overall. For example:

Her: I don't even know me.

Me: I don't know me either but I always seem to end up in that house.
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Also she asked me about whether I was faithful before and she asked whether I was looking for a relationship or just sex(both without having kissed even). Don't you ask all of that after having had sex?
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Don't try to analyze/predict why/what women say/do. They're all different and they're all mental. I remember a couple months ago I met up with a lithuanian. Teasy as fuck, went back to hers. Standard "Im not having sex with you" and to be fair she didn't as...

Her: I want you to respect me before I have sex with you.

So what did we do? we made out for ages then somehow ended up on her hands and knees on her bed, me holding her head down and spanking her...STILL NO SEX. I even tried to get my knob out but nope.

In any sense how is SEX less respectable then THAT!
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Fri Mar 21, 2014 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When a girl does not respond
You already put your offer on the table. Don't try and sweeten it with more until she reciprocates. I say find other things to do, whether that's hobbies or gaming other women, until she comes around and wonders why you aren't pestering her. A woman's imagination run amok is a powerful tool.
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