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Author:  jacob palmer [ Sat Mar 15, 2014 4:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Shy girl and moral issue, need proper advice

Ok so last year I met a shy girl, she gave me buying signals and I totally cocked up. I mean I failed spectacularly. She told all her friends I asked her out though.
I tried again and a couple of weeks later and I got a study date with her. I know what everyone thinks about study dates BUT it was nearly exam period and we literally had no time.
She came to uni early in holidays as well from home just so she could focus on her studying and she was severely stressed out and so on... and she was all alone.
Any way we met up and it went well. She gave me many buying signals. After that date I kinda cocked up again as I came on to strong and she went back into her shell. I forgot about her and she started dating her best friend.
She stopped all buying signals apart from once or twice when I caught her checking me out.
I was also gaming other chicks.

She then split up from him and very recently she gave me proper buying signals i.e sitting near me and trying to get my attention and getting jealous if I was talking about other girls with other guys. She also stares a lot.
She has a tendency to freeze up around me and act really really aloof i.e she waved at me once but she had a really stern look on her face.
She once followed me around and I said hello to her and her face and eyes lit up.
I have tried talking to her on many occasions but she does not ask any questions and gives me one word answers.
I feel it is pretty clear she is interested in me but bloody shy.

Now the morale issue.
I think she is dating/becoming really close another guy in my class who is kinda a mate. The funny thing is she was giving me buying signals just last week though so maybe she just likes the attention?
He may be friend zoned but people think they are going out?

Would you pursue her or leave it giving she has rejected me twice before?
Would you not do this to a girl your mate is interested in?
How do I pursue her? I struggle with this girl
She is so nervous around me and me only
Thanks

Author:  KondomiZer [ Sat Mar 15, 2014 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy girl and moral issue, need proper advice

Quote:
Ok so last year I met a shy girl, she gave me buying signals and I totally cocked up. I mean I failed spectacularly. She told all her friends I asked her out though.
I tried again and a couple of weeks later and I got a study date with her. I know what everyone thinks about study dates BUT it was nearly exam period and we literally had no time.
She came to uni early in holidays as well from home just so she could focus on her studying and she was severely stressed out and so on... and she was all alone.
Any way we met up and it went well. She gave me many buying signals. After that date I kinda cocked up again as I came on to strong and she went back into her shell. I forgot about her and she started dating her best friend.
She stopped all buying signals apart from once or twice when I caught her checking me out.
I was also gaming other chicks.

She then split up from him and very recently she gave me proper buying signals i.e sitting near me and trying to get my attention and getting jealous if I was talking about other girls with other guys. She also stares a lot.
She has a tendency to freeze up around me and act really really aloof i.e she waved at me once but she had a really stern look on her face.
She once followed me around and I said hello to her and her face and eyes lit up.
I have tried talking to her on many occasions but she does not ask any questions and gives me one word answers.
I feel it is pretty clear she is interested in me but bloody shy.

Now the morale issue.
I think she is dating/becoming really close another guy in my class who is kinda a mate. The funny thing is she was giving me buying signals just last week though so maybe she just likes the attention?
He may be friend zoned but people think they are going out?

Would you pursue her or leave it giving she has rejected me twice before?
Would you not do this to a girl your mate is interested in?
How do I pursue her? I struggle with this girl
She is so nervous around me and me only
Thanks
jus leave It dude... If she's interested in you, she should have the courage to tell you... jus GO ON with your regular life...... and given that she's rejected you twice before... jus don't.

Author:  jacob palmer [ Sat Mar 15, 2014 6:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy girl and moral issue, need proper advice

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Ok so last year I met a shy girl, she gave me buying signals and I totally cocked up. I mean I failed spectacularly. She told all her friends I asked her out though.
I tried again and a couple of weeks later and I got a study date with her. I know what everyone thinks about study dates BUT it was nearly exam period and we literally had no time.
She came to uni early in holidays as well from home just so she could focus on her studying and she was severely stressed out and so on... and she was all alone.
Any way we met up and it went well. She gave me many buying signals. After that date I kinda cocked up again as I came on to strong and she went back into her shell. I forgot about her and she started dating her best friend.
She stopped all buying signals apart from once or twice when I caught her checking me out.
I was also gaming other chicks.

She then split up from him and very recently she gave me proper buying signals i.e sitting near me and trying to get my attention and getting jealous if I was talking about other girls with other guys. She also stares a lot.
She has a tendency to freeze up around me and act really really aloof i.e she waved at me once but she had a really stern look on her face.
She once followed me around and I said hello to her and her face and eyes lit up.
I have tried talking to her on many occasions but she does not ask any questions and gives me one word answers.
I feel it is pretty clear she is interested in me but bloody shy.

Now the morale issue.
I think she is dating/becoming really close another guy in my class who is kinda a mate. The funny thing is she was giving me buying signals just last week though so maybe she just likes the attention?
He may be friend zoned but people think they are going out?

Would you pursue her or leave it giving she has rejected me twice before?
Would you not do this to a girl your mate is interested in?
How do I pursue her? I struggle with this girl
She is so nervous around me and me only
Thanks
jus leave It dude... If she's interested in you, she should have the courage to tell you... jus GO ON with your regular life...... and given that she's rejected you twice before... jus don't.
Yeah? ok. I mean I have been gaming other chicks already. I do not like this girl just wanted to boost the ego lol

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