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Author:  Attack [ Wed Feb 27, 2008 5:52 am ]
Post subject:  IOI and Approach
I am totally new here, so here is my intro.

I have had a few girlfriends, but have never been able to attract or get the girls I am REALLY interested in, the 9s and 10s. I know I have it in me, please help!

I am taking an art class once a week with some very attractive females. Now, I sense that there are some interested in me, one in particular that is absolutely gorgeous. I noticed them making eye contact with me several times, looking my way, smiling. My problem is that although this happens to me frequently, I get so nervous and do not know how to react. When I try to make an approach, I have nothing to say, so I come off awkward and weird, resulting in an immediate loss of interest from the target.

I am now trying to feign disinterest, and this is working to my advantage since it seems to escalate the target's interest in me, but I need to know, where do I take it from here? We are already in a social setting with something in common. How do I approach without seeming awkward or needy? How do I let her know I want her with confidence?

This is how I feel> :roll:
Author:  ice_melter [ Wed Feb 27, 2008 10:17 am ]
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well you are in art class
so probably you are drawing all the time
ask her about her opinion of something you just made?

then go off to small talk, how did u both start with art blablabla
but try to move forward to a DHV story as soon as possible :wink:
Author:  mozyFresh [ Wed Feb 27, 2008 1:05 pm ]
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For starters, you dont SHOW her you want her until she has given you enough IOI, and then you show intrest. And you never TELL her you want her, you do this by kino and flirting.

If your good at drawing like i used to be, before i gave it up. Take your picture over and say 'what do you think, i need some feedback?' (I used the word 'feedback' so it gets her talking, but maybe you have a better word)
Then comment on her picture and after that introduce yourself and go from there.
Author:  mozyFresh [ Wed Feb 27, 2008 1:14 pm ]
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Ah 9's and 10's, i dont know how old you are but in school they should be easier because they havn't formed massive ego's yet.
My advice is
Its all good opening the 9's and 10's, but open the 6's and 7's aswell because they will be good practice and soon when your confidence is high and you have developed your game you will be opening 10's without even thinking about it.
Basically when your starting out just open anybody and this will help you improve.
Author:  nuked [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 3:37 am ]
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Mozy is right you should probably start of with 6s and 7s because they are easier to talk, and most likely are bitchy at all. 9s and 10s however no matter how old know they look good. So to some extent they will have an ego. By practicing on 6s/7s you'll get better with your negs; when to use them, and how often. 9s and 10s particularly older ones with ego usually need alot of negging unless they are really insecure. Its the only way to get them to qualify to you.
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