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| Author: | Lumberdog [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 7:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to have good conversation after opener? |
Do you guys can give me some ideas how to make the conversation flow after opening her. I usually get stuck after a while and run out thigs to say.. pls help |
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| Author: | kamjah [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 8:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to have good conversation after opener? |
Quote: Do you guys can give me some ideas how to make the conversation flow after opening her. I usually get stuck after a while and run out thigs to say.. pls help
i struggled with this for a long time. it's still a work in progress, but i'm much better than i was a few years ago. the primary thing is to try and put yourself out of your comfort zone more frequently during the day. chat up random people you encounter (bus driver, girl in line at the grocery store, etc). you might be a great conversationalist with your friends and co-workers, but until you can strike up a random conversation with a random person, you aren't going to be able to do it effectively with random girls at a party or club.another big thing is actively listening to the woman you're talking to. often times women give you everything you need (unless you're talking to one with zero personality) to have a good conversation. for me personally i would spend so much time in my own head thinking about my next line or story that i completely ignored what she was telling me. if you ask her a question, listen to her answer and try and pick out different facts or themes that she gives you about her personality and expand. |
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| Author: | alxbkr [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 7:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to have good conversation after opener? |
Don't be afraid of interview mode. Ask a question, hook from there, run out of things to say Next question. |
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| Author: | southern_gentlemangq [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 7:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to have good conversation after opener? |
easy be funny or corny, don't add a joke to everything but don't be afraid to ask questions..... i usually have a script i always go through 1. open 2. get her name 3. tell her my name and the idiotic reason why i was named that (made up story that always makes a girl laugh) 4. ask her age (which is VERY important, im 20 and have opened on 10 girl 16-17 and had to just leave out the convo) 5.say something you notice about her (doesn't necessarily have to be nice it's actually better if its mean, like saying "you seem like one of those future teachers that put innocent children in time out") 5. random compliment 6. finish with the number i always throw in a couple cocky responses and bam im done BUT remember the 2 most important things are your opener and body language, you can get a number or a date in 2 sentences, |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 12:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to have good conversation after opener? |
Look around and find shit to talk about. Cold read her a bit. Talk about whatever you want to talk about. |
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| Author: | r0cky [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 2:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to have good conversation after opener? |
Quote: easy be funny or corny, don't add a joke to everything but don't be afraid to ask questions.....
Yea, and a 100% flake ratio.i usually have a script i always go through 1. open 2. get her name 3. tell her my name and the idiotic reason why i was named that (made up story that always makes a girl laugh) 4. ask her age (which is VERY important, im 20 and have opened on 10 girl 16-17 and had to just leave out the convo) 5.say something you notice about her (doesn't necessarily have to be nice it's actually better if its mean, like saying "you seem like one of those future teachers that put innocent children in time out") 5. random compliment 6. finish with the number i always throw in a couple cocky responses and bam im done BUT remember the 2 most important things are your opener and body language, you can get a number or a date in 2 sentences, Try moving her to different locations, go on an instadate. It takes at least 20 minutes for a girl to see you as a solid connection and not just some random guy with good verbal game. |
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