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Author:  Zebra95 [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 12:45 am ]
Post subject:  Can someone give me any advice?
Hi guys, im sure a lot of people have asked similar questions and that its annoying to answer the same type of question over and over again :D But, im stuck and I need some help.

Basically, there's a girl in my college, she's not in my class or anything and I don't even know her name, I've just seen her a few times. I'm interested and would like to make a move. However, I have no idea what to do, what would I say to her? I don't really want to be standing in the middle of the corridor talking to her for 2-5 mins making small talk, I would prefer to quickly show that I'm interested and get her number or something if possible. I could ofcourse ask her ''can I have your number?'' but im almost sure that girls don't give out their numbers after being asked that question as an opener.

So...yeah...I'm just bad with words and need a simple, short, not creepy opener sorta thing.. :D
Thanks
Author:  JakeP [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 1:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can someone give me any advice?
Find a way to bump into her. Let things roll from there. Pretend like you're looking at something and need her opinion as a woman on it. That's a good way to draw her in and get her talking enough for you to exchange basic information like name, number etc.,. You really just need to meet her the first time so that she remembers you, assuming that you guys cross paths enough so that next time you'll acknowledge each other. Then you can do instant date stuff. That's really easy on a college campus. I.e., start talking to her if you bump into her and then mention you're going to the office of admissions or to the financial aid office and continue the conversation while you tell her to keep walking with you ("It'll be quick.."). That also shows you're busy and important.

Don't focus on an "opener" too much, She's a human being. Once you have a question to ask her that pertains to you (It's all about YOU, not her. This is your life, and you're auditioning her for a role in it), you'd just talk to her like almost anyone else, and you can escalate from there now that you've established a mutual relationship (i.e. you have in common the fact that you are both in this conversation now). People don't require openers. She's not special.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 2:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can someone give me any advice?
Grab your balls and slam 'em on the table.
Author:  Reese [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 2:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can someone give me any advice?
Where do you see this girl? If you just pass each other in the halls you need to find a way to bump into her. At the store, cafeteria, etc. If you're both getting food tell her one thing tastes better than another. If your in a lab ask her if shes having trouble with her computer at all and yours isn't working correctly. It doesn't matter if it's fine or not, what matters is that you find a way to communicate.. because whether you like it or not you need to learn how to make small talk. Women LOVE small talk. It's only 5 minutes, but could be the most important five minutes of her life if you know exactly what to say.
Women love to laugh. Being able to be witty will get you far. Making jokes about weather, or stupid things at school are easy ways to get the ball rolling. But don't dig for questions, they should just roll of your tongue from one to the next.
When you finally get to talking, you need to establish your interest. If you don't care either way about making a friend then tell her you want to grab lunch and hang. If you think you may be afraid of rejection, then just say she seems interesting and probably more fun to be around than most girls. They love when you think they're special and then that could lead to her introducing you to some of her attractive friends.
Here's what's most important. Be cool. Literally and figuratively. Women love a guy who is calm, assertive, confident, and unafraid of the world. The ability to do those things is what attracts women, and this will lead to improvement in gaming all women

Cheers
Author:  GamesSN [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can someone give me any advice?
If she's in the same class and you see her in the corridor just ask her about your next class, which room it is or what topics you need covered. It's college! You've so much in common!!

If she's not in your class but some randomer just go up to her when she's alone and introduce yourself to her. It's not creepy to go up to a girl and tell her she's cute, that you wanted to say "hey". You're basically complimenting her by being direct and honest.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can someone give me any advice?
Some girls do just give it out, but I wouldn't bank on that.

Personally,

If you want to do anything in life you must always aim high. Aim for something that seems almost out of reach that way everything below it comes easily.

For example:

If you have sex with a girl, kissing her becomes easy. Because you've already achieved something way beyond kissing.

Anyway,

This seems like your first time doing something like this so I'd suggest going in, trying whatever comes to you "naturally" and then come back to the drawing board to figure out how to make things better. Because if you take someone else's advice on your first attempt at success you will always wonder what would of happened if you just listened to your gut.

Trust yourself on this one man and let us know how it turns out.

Peace & Love
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