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| Author: | sugarwallz616 [ Thu Mar 06, 2014 11:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do i build up DHV from this point? |
So a few women know that i'm a virgin... i know i know that was a no-no but they found out somehow So anyway as i reading a post i saw where somebody mentioned how admitting you have your V-card decreases DHV because... i mean who the hell would want to fuck a guy that never had anyone else that wanted to fuck him. Any tips on how to come back from this... i'm sure i can do something but advice is always nice to have. |
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| Author: | manilahottie [ Thu Mar 06, 2014 1:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do i build up DHV from this point? |
It's nice that you are a virgin. I am sure you are a sweet guy inside, considering you have managed to stay that way. How old did you say you were? Be confident and comfortable with who you are. Remove the idea from your mind that it's a DLV. Do not take shit from girls who think that way. If this matters to the girl, she is probably a slut. Other guys are born unable to walk. You are a fucking virgin man. Stand tall and proud and it won't matter - if at all, it is a DHV to the right girls - the kind that you would want to end up. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Thu Mar 06, 2014 8:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do i build up DHV from this point? |
Being a virgin is not a DLV. It actually doesn't have any effect whatsoever on your game, unless you use it to your advantage, which is possible. The ONLY possible thing which could be negative about being a virgin is that it CAN (but doesn't have to, it depends on how you carry it) give signals of scarcity, the opposite to abundance and preselection. It's all about setting the frame. Let your virginity be something that you are proud of, and that you are not one of those promiscuous PUA:s who sticks their dick in anything that moves. Actually, this promiscuity is what makes pickup even harder than it needs to be, since it contradicts many of the "rules" of pickup (as in don't be a try-hard, don't be needy etc). If you know what kind of girl you are looking for, and you are willing to say no to those who don't match your standards, you will immediately turn into a high value man that earns people's respect. |
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| Author: | LD [ Thu Mar 06, 2014 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do i build up DHV from this point? |
Quote: Being a virgin is not a DLV. It actually doesn't have any effect whatsoever on your game, unless you use it to your advantage, which is possible. The ONLY possible thing which could be negative about being a virgin is that it CAN (but doesn't have to, it depends on how you carry it) give signals of scarcity, the opposite to abundance and preselection.
It's all about setting the frame. Let your virginity be something that you are proud of, and that you are not one of those promiscuous PUA:s who sticks their dick in anything that moves. Actually, this promiscuity is what makes pickup even harder than it needs to be, since it contradicts many of the "rules" of pickup (as in don't be a try-hard, don't be needy etc). If you know what kind of girl you are looking for, and you are willing to say no to those who don't match your standards, you will immediately turn into a high value man that earns people's respect. Yeah, i like this advice. Hugge puts it right. In pickup, a 'handicap' is only a handicap if you see it that way. If you believe that being a virgin is a handicap, then it will be a handicap. If you look at it creatively, you can turn it into an asset. It can go the other way as well, with looks. I have seen good looking chaps approach effortless and then fail miserably. But on the other hand, there are 'ugly' dudes, who just rock at picking up. Its not always this easy like i would make it like right now, but in any case, be creative but dont go to far. The best ways to put it into an asset is to keep it simple. cheers and good luck |
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