FUCK!!!!

Sarge 100 other women. Stop wasting your time and effort on this girl. When a girl likes you, she'll even absent herself from work just to be with you.

Ignore this girl and post hot pictures of yourself. None of those needy half naked, shirts off selfies showing off your gym body. Make something like this:



Get a big metal belt buckle and put shiny things near your crotch. Maybe place a Schublig in there and ask a professional photographer to take your picture carefully accentuating your bulging cock.

When she starts communicating with you again, go for the date.

Oh, embed this video for good measure.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMhGSOk1mb4[/youtube]

Wait for Friday to 'ask' her out?
You should call mon, tue, wed between 7 and 10pm to make plans with your harem for the week. If she's busy, tell her to cancel and you're a lot more fun. If not, then say maybe another time. Keep convo to less than four minutes. Less is more, and absence makes the heart grow fonder, and things in short supply are much desired.

My assessment is that you're projecting a non-sexual vibe or you have a very weak sexual vibe. Girls chase guys with sex appeal either on FB or face-to-face.

My advice on taking that new sexy picture and embedding the video was not intended to crack YOU up.

It's designed to make your target girl horny and make you more attractive to her so she'll say 'yes' when you ask her out again for a date.

Again, take a new sexy picture of you as per advice and then post it in your FB. Embed that video too on your FB. When the girl starts hitting you up, go for the date.

Is it possible that I'm rushing too much into meeting her and that put her off? Should I try to build more comfort through chat (or call)?

Ask yourself when it started going wrong...

It went wrong after the first week you froze her out for "being too busy." You said it yourself, the chick is hot, has plenty of admirers and she was interested in you. Why freeze her out needlessly for a week? During that time she probably had about twenty other guys hitting on her. Why wait around for some dude she only talked to on FB and met once at a function? The only way a woman will do that is if you have created very high social value, showed her you were different to every other Joe out there that hits on her and were someone she could really enjoy herself with and others admired.

A lot of people will basically tell you to freeze a chick out but that's stupid. That's stupid if you haven't built a connection and have her hooked in some shape or form. One or two IOIs isn't hooking a chick, you want them drawn in.

From this I don't get the impression you hooked her. You were on the way but then you cut it off completely before reaching a solid hook where she craved your company. That's where you went wrong. Her interest was only so~so and instead of ramping it up you cut it off by freezing her out. Because you froze her out too soon you had the opposite effect on her: You turned her away.

Anyway, at this point I would just ask her for a coffee and hang out. Keep it simple, no pressure environment and ramp up attraction there. Also, as ChimeraPanda said, I would do as he said. It comes across as confident, fun, a man who can take control, someone she could enjoy herself with. If she still doesn't just next her and ping her in a couple of weeks.

So I just quit chatting with this girl I barely know and hope she chances upon my updates and takes notice?

Not trying to imply anything, serious question.

For context, she already noticed my profile a long time ago, she took notice of my work and she USED TO like my updates.