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Author:  bartm [ Fri Feb 28, 2014 6:40 pm ]
Post subject:  girl's friend taking revenge on me for my qualifier?
I was at a wedding/party this past week and started talking to a girl. At first, it was just me and her, but then 2 of her friends came over.

This was a party at a hotel where most people (including me) where of a certain nationality, let's assume Egyptian (I am not Egyptian, I am just using that as an example)

the girl said she is Hungarian and I asked her "If you are Hungarian, why are you hanging out with Egyptians?" then her friend jumped in and said "she is half Egyptian" and then her other friend asked me "I didn't see you anywhere in the party. Are you crashing?" (I failed this shit test pretty bad, I wont even post my response here because it was so bad)

I have never been in a group, for me it's always been one on one, so I don't understand "group psychology"

so I have 2 questions

1. was my qualifier bad? "if you are Hungarian, why are you hanging out with us" is that too mean?
2. What happened here? why were the friends being so defensive? is this normal? can you explain their psychology?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Feb 28, 2014 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl's friend taking revenge on me for my qualifier?
Cock blocks. It's normal especially when the girl is hot.

Expose yourself to more cock blocks until you figure out how to fix the situation. Hint: If the girl is so horny for you, she'll figure out a way to eject away from her friends or ask her friends to leave you two alone.
Author:  JackZero [ Fri Feb 28, 2014 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl's friend taking revenge on me for my qualifier?
Quote:
1. was my qualifier bad? "if you are Hungarian, why are you hanging out with us" is that too mean?
What the friend heard: What qualifies your race to hang out with my race?
Quote:
2. What happened here? why were the friends being so defensive? is this normal? can you explain their psychology?
They were defending their friend's right to be there.

Your attempt at a neg wasn't taken as humorous.
Author:  ChimeranPanda [ Sun Mar 02, 2014 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl's friend taking revenge on me for my qualifier?
A good neg isn't an open-ended question. It's not meant to elicit a thoughtful response; it's meant to elicit an emotion. A good neg is accusatory and funny.
"Oh you're Hungarian? You know, in my experience, it never works out with Hungarian girls... they just love their wine too much!" (Wine is by far the most popular drink in Hungary, and she will catch on and recognize your esoteric — by American standards — knowledge of her small country).
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