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| Author: | Skidrow [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Recover from here (Shit test) |
Long story short: I've met this girl at a party 4 months ago. I k-closed her recently. We went out this Monday and played in the snow, but she broke my nose (headbutt - it was an accident, though) and haven't talked ever since. One and a half days later she asks me how I feel, I reply (the next day) and after one more day of total silence she tells me she's testing me patience. Now I've told her that I don't want to do this anymore coz she makes me feel like a piece of meat (a simple attraction line I've seen around here) but still nothing. I like her and we would bang if it were to hook up (officially) but I don't know how to deal with this shit test. Help, please. PS: shit test: she broke my nose and still, she's the one "not happy" with the situation. |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 9:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Recover from here (Shit test) |
I don't see where there's a shit test. I see where she broke your nose and it took nearly 2 days for her to ask how you're doing. Never speak to her again. |
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| Author: | GrayJay [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 10:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Recover from here (Shit test) |
I feel that you already blew the shit test. My take is that if you want to pursue this then you need to take a step back and start over: I would try to write her off in my heart and just dont text her for a week or more. Try your best to forget about her and get over the oneitis (dont text). If she responds within that time, then wait till the next day or at least several hours later to respond. If she doesn't respond then the next time you remember her (after a week or so) go with the basic routine of sending her a text opener and follow the pua texting guidelines from there to build attraction- dont text her back right away - as dude above said, she broke your nose and then gave you a shit test on top of it (thats the frame). If she wants to pick up relation that's fine but this time you're leading and youre not going to put up with that kind of crap. If she doesnt like it you have to be willing to walk away (this is your frame) - just believe that your frame is right... which imo, in this case, most certainly is. My last thought is that if you are insistent about following up with this girl then make SURE you have an answer for the next shit-test... which would most likely be the same one dressed up differently... following up on how your nose is ("by the way, im still so sorry about your nose. How's that doing?"). That is the shit test imo, and answering the question puts you back in her mental picture of you being a dude whom it's alright to break his nose and then give a shit test to. Fail. |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Recover from here (Shit test) |
Can someone clarify what the shit test even is? All I see is "I'm testing your patience" but I have no idea how that's a shit test. |
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| Author: | GrayJay [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 12:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Recover from here (Shit test) |
Quote: Can someone clarify what the shit test even is? All I see is "I'm testing your patience" but I have no idea how that's a shit test.
i would guess the shit test to be the fact that she treated him like shit and then came back to see what he'd do about it.
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 1:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Recover from here (Shit test) |
I laughed. She broke your nose? Haha. You should have said she had to make it up to you. "You broke my nose, bitch. You owe me big if you want to make me happy." I wouldn't have even waited a day to reply. Just be up front, straight about it and let her know she owes you or you're walking away. If she walked away after breaking your nose and not even offering to make it up to you with ice cream or even something innocent she's not worth jack shit. I would just walk away, seriously. If she broke your nose, says she's testing your patience two days later then she's probably either playing really hard to get or she's fucking with your head. Lets be honest, screw "The Game", chick broke your nose. Even if her "game" is to play hard to get you throw that out the window if you physically harm someone else no matter the reason and make sure they're okay. Does she even know she broke your nose? Fucking odd behaviour if she does and waits two days to see if you're okay! |
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