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| Author: | BITmixit [ Thu Feb 06, 2014 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 2 different possible LTR - 2 circumstances |
So anyway, been attracting some girls that I would consider for an LTR both of which suite me but the circumstances are annoying as fuck and nothing Ive run into before. Girl No 1: She started at my place of work in september. Had an LDR in Germany so I just stuck to the basic flirting/gaining attraction. Within a month the LDR had been dumped but by then I had decided I liked her so gave it some more time to build more attraction. Worked, pulled her on a night out and slept with her. However at the end of that week she drops the bomb that she's moving to France for 4 months in a week. We spend that week together, banging and all that. Awesome week, a lot of "I wish I wasn't going now", "I wish we'd done this sooner", "So annoying, we have so much fun" and all that from her mouth. We have tickets for a gig and have some plans together for the Summer (festivals and such) but the interest has been waning whilst she's been away. I used to get massive messages every day/other day. Now its a week at best with tiny messages (im mirroring.) Any tips for this or should I simply drop her till she returns? Girl No 2: This girl I've liked for a while. I met her through my best mate a year and a bit ago but didn't do anything as he told me he really liked her and he'd just gone thru a breakup so thought I'd leave it to him (He's AFC as hell tho) she could tell he liked her but wasn't interested. Anyway a couple weeks ago I went out with my friend with this group of his coursemates (he was ill) and got with one of the other girls on the course. Moving forward last weekend I was at a party that Girl No 2 was at. She comes up to me and asks if me getting with her friend was just alcohol or if I liked her. I said it was just alcohol and nobody should think anything of it. Girl No 2 comes out with "Ah it's just she really likes you but...I kinda like you as well" to which I was a bit stunned (she's never that forward, very shy, very protective of herself girl but absolutely beautiful in a curvylicious way) she ran off but reappeared saying she wanted to talk about it as she didn't want it to be weird. I just grabbed her and kissed her. She got all girl like (eyes and such) and grabbed me telling me she didn't want me to go home (I had to leave early due to work) Unfortunately I had to leave and she had to stay as her friend was down. I told her to let me take her for a drink later in the week. We agreed that I'd talk to my mate and she'd talk to her friend. However since then she's fallen ill (fever and tonsilitus) and has gone home. The texts she sends me are massive and a fair few questions. Due to her falling ill (even if she is ill I still consider this flakey behaviour) I'm running standard game i.e. I'm a super busy guy with loads of people to hang around with aka I let it slip to her that I'm going on a trip (with a female) and she needs to get better by the time I'm back (I am actually going) However due to her shyness and protectiveness she isn't the girl to iniaite and has told me so aka "You need to be the first one to text, I won't do it. I know it's silly but I'm like that" when we first got together but did state in her ill text "We shall have to rearrange once I'm better" but haven't had contact with her for a day or two. Should I simply reiniate when she's back or what? I know the questions I'm asking are quite simple but the circumstances aren't something I've run into before. Normally with a girl if she gets ill I've banged her by then and just get the standard "come over and make me feel better pleaseeeee" shit. |
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