Here's a situation I'm trying to puzzle out, let's say I'm a shy and indirect type of person and I've been in love with that girl for while, we're friends but unluckily seems I can't get out of the friend zone (whether I confessed to her b4 or not). One day, she tells me that she's started to date this other guy and she ask me ''Are you ok with it?''
Now, I know a lot of guys can relate to this scenario, usually (which I know is the wrong way about it), out of pride a man will pretend that he's cool with it for reasons such as ''I don't want my real feelings to be exposed and ruin our good relationship'' or ''Maybe it wasn't meant to for the two of us to date each other'' etc...
Obviously, why would she care what I think about her dating that other dude unless she's either interested in me or sensing that I've been a little too aggressive and ''out of character'' lately (being hitting on her more than usual) and she's testing me, right?
I'd really like to hear your thoughts about that. Also I'd like to know what would you have said if you were in my shoes and she's aksed the same question.
it hurts like hell, if you like her that much.