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Author:  testin [ Sat Jan 11, 2014 3:26 am ]
Post subject:  Am I her "backup"?

This girl already mentioned to me she started dating someone else but also is interested in meeting up with me... I try not to chase her and it isn't that hard since I got other options... But anytime I try to set up a date she says she is too busy because of work and wants to set something up the following week, so I tell her to msg me when she figures her schedule out and she disappears for 2 weeks then msgs me with no mention of meeting up, until I bring it up...

She did this twice now and just the other day she texted me saying "hey"...

What is she doing? Is she making sure I'm still available so I can be her "backup" guy or what? Do I need to be more assertive maybe? Any advice?

Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sat Jan 11, 2014 4:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Am I her "backup"?

maybe she's a player. who knows? You'll find out. Pursue her... but if she constantly flakes on you thenn move on.

Author:  testin [ Sun Jan 12, 2014 3:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Am I her "backup"?

I think I'm just going to move on, this girl texts me then takes a full day to respond everytime... Gonna cut her off, no time for that BS. Seems like she needs some attention/validation

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