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Author:  Straightforward [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  How to become masculine?
There is this video about her reaction to you and what you can learn from it. I found out that I don't radiate masculinity or I radiate only little masculinity.

How do I actively contribute to radiating more masculinity? Which behavior contributes to radiating masculinity even if I don't feel masculine - or - which behaviour brings me into a masculine vibe?
Author:  In$tinct [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
You got it the wrong way. You don't start acting masculine and then feel masculine. You have to learn to feel masculine and then, with paying only little attention, you will be able to project masculinity easier. Here're a few tips for you.

1) Stop masturbating and watching porn.
2) Make a list of what you value in yourself as a person. Remind yourself often that you're valuable.
3) Make a list of what you're seeking in a woman. Concentrate on personality traits, rather than looks. You can also use this as a conversation topic. People feel generally more confident when they're talking about their desires.
4) Work on your body language. Stand with a straight back. Don't be afraid to smile. Use slow and lower gestures(somewhere between your belly and your chest). Speak slowly and take pauses. Play with your voice when you're speaking, try not to be monotone. And very important: keep eye contact with the people you're talking to.
5) Ultimately, make a small list of your goals, and do something EVERY DAY to get closer to them. Even the smallest effort will do it, just make sure that you go to bed each day knowing that it was not wasted.
Author:  Straightforward [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Those are interesting:
  • Stand with a straight back.
  • Use slow and lower gestures(somewhere between your belly and your chest).
  • Speak slowly and take pauses.
  • Play with your voice when you're speaking, try not to be monotone.
  • keep eye contact with the people you're talking to.
I am naturally jittery. I remember having slowed myself down and it worked great but then I got into my old habit again, as I've always been quick. But this can very well be the reason. Is there are way to be quick yet still masculine?
Author:  regularguy [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Quote:
There is this video about her reaction to you and what you can learn from it. I found out that I don't radiate masculinity or I radiate only little masculinity.

How do I actively contribute to radiating more masculinity? Which behavior contributes to radiating masculinity even if I don't feel masculine - or - which behaviour brings me into a masculine vibe?
I think you can only radiate masculinity naturally by building your inner confidence to a point where you are not affected by you're surroundings and interacting with people isnt an issue because you have proven to yourself repeatedly you are comfortable with yourself towards others.

Inner confidence is reinforced when you build your social circle, do things you love, stay occupied and productive, get out often etc etc. To radiate masculinity you have to feel masculine by feeling confident, you can't quick fix it. Inner confidence is a trained mindset response drawn from your lifes experiences but it cant be trained with negative affirmations...

You have to start at the core and work your way up. Practice acceptance of yourself and other people, traits, personality, positive interactions that went well etc As a result, you will become forward in your body language without trying, slowing down the interaction, chuckling at her and calling her out and jokingly agree with her when she tries to shit test you etc etc all these show her strength which is what she is looking for subconsciously..

Im working on this stuff myself but more and more each day I notice improvements but got to remember to give yourself breaks or you will burn out.
Author:  Straightforward [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
regularguy, this is not useful. Try to create practical methods out of that, which I can use RIGHT NOW - like In$tinct did.
Author:  regularguy [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
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regularguy, this is not useful. Try to create practical methods out of that, which I can use RIGHT NOW - like In$tinct did.
I completely dissagree, Imo lasting masculinity is based on building your inner core strength, its not an overnight thing but its not a very lengthy process either. Quick fixing this does not give you the ground to shake off negative responses, amuse yourself, lead the interaction right through etc etc its false and it will kick you in the ass when you needed it the most.

In$tinct is basically describing the same, correct process ie working on personality traits, working towards goals etc with extra useful exercises.

I am talking from improvements in attitude etc from personal experience, watching each little improvement is just as important as well which adds to inner confidence.
Author:  Straightforward [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
regularguy, you are on the wrong track with that. Your brain needs clear description, not abstract concepts. I won't discuss this further, get yourself informed. Good luck.
Author:  LongSimple [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Quote:
Those are interesting:
  • Stand with a straight back.
  • Use slow and lower gestures(somewhere between your belly and your chest).
  • Speak slowly and take pauses.
  • Play with your voice when you're speaking, try not to be monotone.
  • keep eye contact with the people you're talking to.
I am naturally jittery. I remember having slowed myself down and it worked great but then I got into my old habit again, as I've always been quick. But this can very well be the reason. Is there are way to be quick yet still masculine?
Also, be a fucking confident ass nigga seriously though, once you open a girl right and have like a 40 game then f close her, it is the best feeling in the world... Try eating healthy food, sleeping well and spreading your meal through the day I eat 250 cal every 45 minutes, I row crew as well, and eat poached eggs, a banana and 2 oranges in the morning, then a high protein/calcium dinner. Also, use your replies for shit tests on people other then hot chicks, If some guy says nice hair faggot reply with something witty like yeah I tried to make it like yours, or something simple like, that's cool. Don't let people fuck with you, but don't attack them if they do..
Author:  LongSimple [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Quote:
regularguy, you are on the wrong track with that. Your brain needs clear description, not abstract concepts. I won't discuss this further, get yourself informed. Good luck.
yerr, and you need #completecongruency
Author:  In$tinct [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 3:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Actually regularguy is completely on the right track. I just provided you with means of how to realise that you're a man. But you do need to internalize those abstract thoughts into your core. Or even more precise would be to say, that your core already has those abstract ideas, you only need to get rid of everything that is hindering it to manifest.
Author:  regularguy [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Quote:
regularguy, you are on the wrong track with that. Your brain needs clear description, not abstract concepts. I won't discuss this further, get yourself informed. Good luck.
Haha there is nothing abstract about it, its basic social psychology. You are not budging which is fair enough, everyone is entitled to thier own opinion but let me just tell you this, I have personally tried the quick route to appearing confident and masculine as a quick survival means attempt to keep my head above water and it does not work. Soon as someone hits your ego, you carry it home with you and your ego is even more fucked because you thought you were 'doing everything right' but the effort that was put into acting it (Which shows by the way, they smell it a mile away) could have been put into having fun with the interaction.

Anyway hope you figure things out which work for you :)
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 12:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
Start looking at your behaviors...

Look at how you talk to people. Is it the way a man would talk?
Look at how you handle your problems. Is it the way a man would handle his problems?
Look at how you carry yourself. Is it the way a man would carry himself?

The list can go on but you get the idea of where I'm going... If you want to "appear" more masculine, you simply have to BE more masculine. Start acting like a fucking man instead of acting like a woman.

Here's my advice to you... Find a male role model. Find several male role models. Study them and learn their habits. Learn what makes them masculine and IMPLEMENT those habits into yourself. (Note: The key word there is implementation. You can sit around studying people the rest of your life. Until you actually reach that action threshold where you start DOING... you won't notice a change.)
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 2:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
scream and pound on your chest. and grow more chest hair. grow a beard.

eat steak. medium rare... not well done you pussy!

do curls.... and bench press.... and slam the weights down after your last rep. (preferbly in planet fitness (gayness) )

Always tell a girl what you're GOING to do... don't ask her.

Lead from the front

Beg For Forgiveness NEVER Ask For Permission

Smack her ass.

Drink BLACK coffee.

cook on the grill.

act like you know what you're doing when it comes to home improvement.
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to become masculine?
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There is this video about her reaction to you and what you can learn from it. I found out that I don't radiate masculinity or I radiate only little masculinity.

How do I actively contribute to radiating more masculinity? Which behavior contributes to radiating masculinity even if I don't feel masculine - or - which behaviour brings me into a masculine vibe?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TijDInh ... aje_vCb6KQ
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