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Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 9:40 pm ]
Post subject:  HB asking for favors......
Good evening guys and thanks for reading, a good week to all and merry christmas !





Today was reading some topics and just remember how my ex-HB, when we were a couple in relationship used to ask me all these kinds of favors claiming it was my role because i was a man. She never was gold digging with me , but she used to fire some of these examples at me....


HB: you gotta drill my wall to put the painting up cause you are the man..
HB: you gotta carry these heavy boxes because you are the man....
HB: you gotta drive the car cause you are the man....
HB: you gotta get me a ring cause you re the man......


and all these types of shit.......... in your opinion, is it possible how do you defuse these society roles ?




Opinions are very welcomed !


:)
Author:  southern_gentlemangq [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 9:45 pm ]
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i used to hate this but now i accept it cause ill rather be a MAN......in the years to come with all the single moms and stuff men will not do half of the things you just listed....so i think you should embrace it rather than defuse it
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 9:55 pm ]
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Reciprocity or reciprocation.

When girls ask you favors, the 3 basic seduction rules are:

1. Girls have to earn your attention. If they haven't earned it yet, always say 'No' in a nonchalant but polite manner. When a girl asks why, I routinely reply, "You're still a stranger. I don't know you well enough as a person." This way, girls work harder to please you.

2. Randomly reward girls with your compliance. When a girl does a nice thing for you, it's okay to reward her with your compliance when she asks for a favor-- but not always. Make your compliance random. This is basic operant conditioning.

3. When she asks you a favor, randomly anchor a corresponding favor of your own something like, "Sure, I'll drill the holes on the wall BUT give me a nice blowjob first."
Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 11:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB asking for favors......
Hey guys and thanks for the great feedback.



Hellhound, i was refering to these favors when within a relationship, anyway i will use this chance to ask you for some more ideas on your idea number 2



Ways to reward, or lightly reward an HB, can you give me more ideas on that ?



I guess reason i ask is i never reward HBs.....and they lose interest,,,its definitely one of my sticking points.



:)
Author:  Tr@veler [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 11:31 pm ]
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When you are in a relationship why not educate her of what you know? These are roles society has built around us. She is using these roles as a form of comfort, that she does not want to get out of. She does not want to change as a person, she is being, first and foremost, lazy. On the other side of the coin you also have to be willing to learn and change the entire time in order for this to be congruent and for her to truly see value in it. If you do then she will, too.
Author:  neo87 [ Mon Dec 23, 2013 3:33 am ]
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This is why you screen chicks before getting into a relationship with them. Her views on the role of men is not compatible with yours and this should have been screened out long before you made her you gf. She sees men as the ones who "work" for their woman, and in the dating phase there would have been signs that she thinks this way. Such as, she always waits for you to open doors. Find out how a girl views relationships and the roles of men and women in them, and if you're opposing, move on.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Tue Dec 24, 2013 4:31 am ]
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Rewards that are given freely or are too easily given get girls bored.

Girls have to earn your attention whether they're new ones that you're sarging or are your regular FWBs. Since AFCs give hot girls attention (or gifts, or drinks) whether they've earned it or not, then you have to set yourself apart from the dozens of guys who are doing the same thing for girls over and over again.

Another key principle is randomness. If a girl does something nice for you and you always give her a reward every time, then you'll get manipulated to give her bigger and higher value rewards. In the end, she'll walk all over you and treat you like a rag. Sometimes you comply. Oftentimes, you shouldn't.

One more thing: Make girls work hard for your attention. Your attention is the reward itself and is better than a chocolate bar or a teddy bear.

More examples of #1 in different contexts are:

1. Girl: Can you get my make up over there?
You: I'm busy.
Girl: Please? (Makes cute faces, shows her cleavage, etc.)
You: Show me one of your nipples and I'll get your make up.
Girl: (Gives you a peek at one of her nipples.)
You: Good. Now spread your pussy for me in a decent manner. I don't want any slutty poses.
Girl: (Gives you a beaver shot and giggles.)

I use this routine playfully with the girls I fuck. The reward I give is give girls the favor(s) they're asking for and then fuck their brains out.

Note: A reward can be any mundane or trivial thing as long as the girl works hard for it. A girl is generally happy getting something (mostly your attention) that she worked hard for. The best reward to give a girl is of course your cock with some pretty skillful pussy banging.

2. Girl: Can you help me with my dissertation?
You: No.
Girl: (Does a strip tease and rubs her pussy at your face.)
You: (You give her a reward by fucking her brains out.)
Girl: So... Are you going to help me with my paper?
You: No. How are you going to be good at your future profession if I helped you out? Why don't you cook us some breakfast? I'm hungry. Go. Go. Make it quick.

Note: The reward here for the girl doing a nice thing for you is the good fuck. Nothing more.
Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Tue Dec 24, 2013 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB asking for favors......
Loved the ideas, hellhound ! props !




Could you share some more ideas about physical rewards (except for cock and the most valuable one, our presence and attention) that HBs enjoy ?




The only one that occurs me in a chocolate or a candy........
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Dec 25, 2013 6:12 am ]
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Quote:
Could you share some more ideas about physical rewards (except for cock and the most valuable one, our presence and attention) that HBs enjoy ?
Well, you can let her lick your balls if she does something nice fer yah. You can also jizz on her face when she cooks you a delicious meal. Girls LOVE jizz on their faces (generally speaking). They also love it when you slap their faces with your cock.
Author:  CopernicanShift [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 3:47 am ]
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Quote:
Good evening guys and thanks for reading, a good week to all and merry christmas !





Today was reading some topics and just remember how my ex-HB, when we were a couple in relationship used to ask me all these kinds of favors claiming it was my role because i was a man. She never was gold digging with me , but she used to fire some of these examples at me....


HB: you gotta drill my wall to put the painting up cause you are the man..
HB: you gotta carry these heavy boxes because you are the man....
HB: you gotta drive the car cause you are the man....
HB: you gotta get me a ring cause you re the man......


and all these types of shit.......... in your opinion, is it possible how do you defuse these society roles ?




Opinions are very welcomed !


:)
I'd use humour to diffuse it if you don't wanna do it, "well I guess that means you've got to give me a blowjob because you're the woman."

"well I guess that means you're cooking me dinner tonight because you're the woman, thank you baby"
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 4:56 am ]
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you gotta go play with the vacuum cause you're a woman.....
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