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| Author: | TiagoFigueiredo [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 5:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Good afternoon PUAS and thanks for reading , merry christmas to all ! This ackward situation just popped into my mind, i took out this HB i used to see for sex some weeks ago for a couple of drinks one night and while we were with friends.... she shit tested me with this... HB: I dont know HOW should i introduce you....to my friends....i dont know what we are. Tiago: Why would you need to introduce me as anything ? What do you guys think of this ? Opinions are welcomed ! 
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| Author: | southern_gentlemangq [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 8:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
seems like an asshole thing to say....therefore you passed |
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| Author: | Swagman [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 9:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Quote: seems like an asshole thing to say....therefore you passed
I agree. You took her shit test and threw it right back at her, which is one of the best things you can do for this sort of situation. This kind of response also puts you in control of the situation, since you are setting the ground of what the relationship between you two can and can't be defined as.Overall, excellent work. |
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| Author: | TiagoFigueiredo [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 9:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Hey guys thanks very much for the feedback ! It makes me proud of myself, even tough at the time, it was not aware of it..... the follow up.... she continued in private to try to play me.... HB : i dont know what we are anymore... you just want sleep me... I dont remeber what i aswered..... but if it was today i would have said "And dont you just love it ?" Anyway just put up another doubt, would enjoy if you guys could take a look ! thanks ! hb-asking-for-favors-vt173311.html
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| Author: | Swagman [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Hmmm... Now I'm curious seeing her newest message. Could you give us some background on the relationship between you two? |
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| Author: | TiagoFigueiredo [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 10:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Ah its over now, i just dont have yet the qualities / patience / confidence to be in a relation. Who the fuck would wanna live with a HB ? when you can just fuck close them ? Id rather focus in me and improving as a person now. She moved into my house (i lived in a shared at the time) run some routine shit ... and we became fuckbuddys. Anyway was worth for the social situations and the knowledge from it. |
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| Author: | Swagman [ Mon Dec 23, 2013 7:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Quote: Ah its over now, i just dont have yet the qualities / patience / confidence to be in a relation. Who the fuck would wanna live with a HB ? when you can just fuck close them ? Id rather focus in me and improving as a person now.
Well, those who want to invest in a relationship would be willing to move in with each other. In addition, those who don't have the number one goal of sex in mind would also be opposed to this. I personally do not like, nor do I like to go after, sex because it is a powerful investment, and it can have the effect of putting the relationship on a downhill trend after it occurs.Quote: She moved into my house (i lived in a shared at the time) run some routine shit ... and we became fuckbuddys.
It's great that you're so successful. However, focusing on yourself won't get you very far in the world. Yes, it is always a good idea to just focus on yourself so you don't bog yourself down with worries, but you have to be considerate of what the consequences of your actions are going to be. In this case, she could be heartbroken because she wanted something more between you two and you led her on into a position of sexual favors only. Now I have no idea what the content of the interactions were, but it's a possibility nonetheless.Anyway was worth for the social situations and the knowledge from it. Not saying you should really change anything, only consider what I said. Just throwing out my two cents. |
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| Author: | TiagoFigueiredo [ Mon Dec 23, 2013 11:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Qualification ...of the situation ? |
Anyway the house wasnt mine, but a shared student house but you are absolutely right swagman. Not to brag or anything because i think bragging is useless, byt this is the story of all my relationships, HBs saying i love you bla bla bla...... i wanna be with you.... and i maybe foolishely not dealing with the situation just relegating them to sex partners, WHICH LEADS TO VERY FAST ENDING OF RELATIONS..... I mean i love fast and intense relations but you wanna aim for some stability in things.... Dont get me wrong one day i will have to marry and everything, but i need to be by myself to value the things in my world. and reframe my principles and goals. Not only my headspace but going out and aiming for a bootcamp, i am aware i cant make magic alone, but i can try to change the lens i see the world through.... Anyway, i like regular sex, not very interested in one night stands.....so this often comes to case.... HBs love to qualify relations in order to settle in their head and share with friends and family. Not sure yet how to deal with this, but i guess next time i will tell a HB to call our relation whatever she wants cause i believe in names, and i think they are the first step to smoother all the existing feelings...... What you guys think about it?
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