Hey everyone, need some advice!
Last night I was at my ex's 24th (broke up a year ago, were together for 4 years, still pretty cut up about it but reading/watching a load of PUA stuff has really helped over the last year). Anyway, wasn't having the greatest time as my ex had a new boyfriend I didn't know about and wasn't exactly being very subtle about it, but fortunately I ended up making out with a gorgeous friend of mine who I've recently started talking to again for the first time in about 5 years (had a bit of history back then, hooked up back in the day but didn't go anywhere as she was a bit young and a bit boring). She just randomly kissed me out of nowhere and although we were both plastered, it felt like it wasn't just the alcohol that caused it.
This morning I decided to ask her out, said something along the lines of "I think we'd both be depriving ourselves of an amazing time together if we didn't go out on a date. Whadaya say?" She replied with "It could be fun! I've got heaps to do before Christmas and am out of town for a few days but we'll sort something out after Boxing Day
"So feeling pretty good about it all day, trying not to get my hopes up but pretty hard since she's smoking hot and I haven't gotten any action in a few months... anyway, earlier tonight I get a message from her, "Hey, I feel really bad about what happened. I actually found out from [friend] who told me this morning. I thought I should let you know that I'm kind of into someone at the moment so it's bad timing :\ I'm so sorry".
Pretty fucking gutted but not wanting to let it show, I replied with; "Hey its no problem, don't feel bad! Guess it just felt like it was motivated by more than just booze, so thought you might be interested in coming out for a more sober night and seeing how it went, nothing serious
but that's cool if you wouldn't feel comfortable, the offer's on the table if you change your mind!" and she responded with "Yeah I see what you mean. It's hard to know cause I haven't been that drunk in about half a year. It's super nice of you to be so awesome about it. It probably would be pretty cool to catch up properly and everything. Just thought it'd be pretty rude of me to not be honest about everything you know! Maybe we can still do something in the next couple of weeks? "So that's pretty much it! Did I say the wrong thing or was she really just too drunk to know what she was doing? Any advice on how I can win her over, or at least get her into bed?
Cheers guys!