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Author:  moneyneversleeps [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  did i stuff this up massively,

So im walking to the cab rank, about 1 am, when this gorgeous caucasian blonde (HB9) pulls up in her brand new $150,000.00 mercedes.(i later find out this girl is 19 years old).

Anyway, i make some smart ass remark about her being alone and not having friends, and she giggles.
So i step by the car and ask her to take me home.. (flirt a bit about random stuff and how cute i am)

To my amazement she agrees. On the way home she shares her sandwich with me and we talk.
She holds the entire conversation. I barely get to put in many words besides teasing her about a few things.

I ask her to go out for drinks, but she refuses as she has to drop her parents off at the airport the next morning.

She drops me off home and i promise to take her out some time. ( i don't even invite her in!!)
My phone is dead so i grab her phone and put my number in.

I havent heard from her in two days now and wondering if i f**ked it up.
I didn't get to tell her much about myself, as she was holding the conversation and it was mainly about her and then me friendly bantering with her.
I feel because i didnt tell her anything about myself i stuffed it up. ( no rapport building).
Should i have invited her in? have i ruined it!??

AHHHHHHHGGGG!! story of my life.. i can open any girl and i am just by far the worst closer in history.

Author:  Brem89 [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: did i stuff this up massively,

You probably should have invited her in. How days was it since this happened? She may still contact you at some point. Why didn't you ask for her number by the way?

Author:  GamesSN [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: did i stuff this up massively,

Question: Do you stuff up much?

I'm in a similar predicament myself. I keep getting HB8+'s hitting on me and it's a sure thing only to fuck it up and not go in or build upon it.

From the sounds of things you just needed to go for it. Don't put yourself down, just learn and move on. At least she has your number and you did that much!

Author:  stringfellow on sticks [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:39 pm ]
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After putting your number into her phone, you should've pressed call! That way you would've had a missed call and HER number saved in your phone!

Simple but effective!

Author:  JTQatar [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:54 pm ]
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What Mercedes was she driving?! Gotta know that since i work at Mercedes Benz lol

Author:  oceanx [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 3:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: did i stuff this up massively,

If it happens again some time, could tell the girl more about yourself as you suggested. Part of the description of yourself can be to tell her about something you are passionate about, talking passionately to the point where she gets interested in it too. Say it's photography for example. Could invite her in with "I just took some new shots yesterday of X come check it out."

Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 5:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: did i stuff this up massively,

you did a great job....

only mistake you made is you gave her your number... you didn't get hers.

Never do this again!

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