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| Author: | Reywal [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 10:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Just about to give up now |
Hey guys! Can it be possible to accept failure after failure (this post doesn't concern picking up women)? I just can't believe the fact that success comes after failure anymore. Even if I give my best until getting exhausted, I still fail. I know sometimes failing can be a sort of motivation, but reaching a certain point, you can't believe in it anymore. I fell like failing it's now a normal part of my life and I can't do anything to change it. I have been trying to change it with all my soul but it does the opposite effect... I just need an external point of view concerning my situation, advices about staying optimist despite that. Thanks, |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 10:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
You want advice without giving any information as to what this concerns. Philosophy on women =/= Business or personal life. |
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| Author: | inxile7 [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 10:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
I think you should work on yourself before you start this whole PUA thing... If you find a girl you're just going to use her as validation for yourself, and that can be a tragic. Been there done that. But you can definitely change that outcome. You should start by relearning how you perceive yourself.. Here's a book, not the say all be all but definitely a start in the right direction. What to say when you talk to yourself by Shad Helmstetter. It's about reprogramming your mind to raise your expectations and achieve better standards of living. Once you've gotten a better outlook, then work on your game towards women. It takes work, but hey Rome wasn't built in a day. |
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| Author: | CopernicanShift [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 11:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
I am sorry you are having such a hard time if you want to SPAM about it pm me and I will give you my ID just to say you will always feel like you are failing if you compare yourself to your perfect standards which are actually standards that parents and other care-givers imposed upon you when you were too young to have a say in it you always succeed if you measure success in learning, don't compare yourself to perfection, compare yourself to how you were before and you can make a mission out of growing greater and greater gradually know it sounds hard but make a practice of it you can improve for more SPAM |
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| Author: | Reywal [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 2:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Thanks guys for your comments, they are greatly appreciated! |
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| Author: | inxile7 [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 3:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Quote: I am sorry you are having such a hard time
This is well put, and to make it into a slogan - Don't compare your insides to someone's outsides, you'll lose everytime.
if you want to SPAM about it pm me and I will give you my ID just to say you will always feel like you are failing if you compare yourself to your perfect standards which are actually standards that parents and other care-givers imposed upon you when you were too young to have a say in it you always succeed if you measure success in learning, don't compare yourself to perfection, compare yourself to how you were before and you can make a mission out of growing greater and greater gradually know it sounds hard but make a practice of it you can improve for more SPAM |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 1:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Have you heard about those kids in Thailand that kick trees and shatter their shins to strengthen them? Now of course they don't keep on kicking it until their is no leg left. They kick until they break something and then they stop and heal. And then they kick again until they break it again.. and then heal. All the way up until their shin in rock solid. You're kind of on the same mission... " Kicking a tree" may seem stupid.. But when your shin heals.. It'll all start to make sense. Soounds like you're going through the healing process... It hurts and themes seem tough. But once you heal.. It'll all start to make sense. |
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| Author: | strikefast [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 2:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
I know the feeling, mate. In fact I'm feeling it right now. That feeling that no matter how hard you try, nothing is going to improve and you're gonna' be a AFC till they nail your coffin shut. Every girl I've interacted with has given me the feeling that they were tolerating me at best. But I can't stop till I get what I want. We are struggling together. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 3:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
http://addicted2success.com/success-adv ... t-to-fail/ The more you fail the more you win. Read the article above!!! |
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| Author: | Apples185 [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 6:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
This is one of the results with cold approaching. Women do the CHOOSING, that is the truth. Sorry, but its always been that way. You have to work on yourself first(if you're skinny, hit the gym, get contacts if you have glasses, get a consultation for dressing, etc. Wish you luck. |
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| Author: | Brem89 [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 9:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Failure is a part of life, it's how you learn from the mistakes you made is what makes you get past such failures. Remember the things you do wrong, and better yourself to make sure you never make the same mistake twice. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 10:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Failure is good. Failure helps you develop tenacity. It makes you stronger towards the next failures... cause they never stop Listen man, life is full of opportunities. You can either take those opportunities that might seem a bit risky which are possibly going to take you towards failure or you can be a big pussy and not take them at all. I mean lets face it... Unless you are working on a new design for an airplane or a pace maker or some shit... There really isn't much risk in any opportunities you might take. (Real PHYSICAL risk that is.) The only risk is failure... And I'll be honest with you man... If you can't take failing. If you can't take constant rejection. People trying to bring you down and tell you that you can't do it... You're not meant to succeed. Because everyone out there who is successful in anything... went out there, took a beating, and FAILED thousands of times before they ever actually succeeded. Don't be a pussy. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 12:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Quote: Failure is good. Failure helps you develop tenacity. It makes you stronger towards the next failures... cause they never stop
Listen man, life is full of opportunities. You can either take those opportunities that might seem a bit risky which are possibly going to take you towards failure or you can be a big pussy and not take them at all. I mean lets face it... Unless you are working on a new design for an airplane or a pace maker or some shit... There really isn't much risk in any opportunities you might take. (Real PHYSICAL risk that is.) The only risk is failure... And I'll be honest with you man... If you can't take failing. If you can't take constant rejection. People trying to bring you down and tell you that you can't do it... You're not meant to succeed. Because everyone out there who is successful in anything... went out there, took a beating, and FAILED thousands of times before they ever actually succeeded. Don't be a pussy. I love advice like this. It's straight, to the point and 100% accurate. You need to take chances to get results. Fact is you'll get rejected a lot(Girls, jobs, friends, etc.) but when you find someone or something finally it's all worth it like that job you've always wanted or that girl you ended up marrying. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Just about to give up now |
Success comes right after the moment where you feel like givin up “If you give up before your goal has been reached, you are a "quitter." A QUITTER NEVER WINS AND A WINNER NEVER QUITS. Lift this sentence out, write it on a piece of paper in letters an inch high, and place it where you will see it every night before you go to sleep, and every morning before you go to work” -Napolean Hill |
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