you're not doing bad.... It does seem she leads the convo in some points..
like when you said "I caved too
"You could've said "Yeah I knew you were gonna cave...."
but it looks like you have a nice fluid convo going... turn it up a little more.
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| Author: | tummytom10 [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 9:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | text game killing me..... help anybody?s |
new to the furm and hoping i can get some pointers. so heres my story im freshly single after 2 years (almost took the plunge) and got out of that a couple months ago. i started studying this art shortly after and im practicing the basics. im surprised how easy and fun it gets when you get the hang of it. anyways after texting the same girl everyday for 2 years my text game could definately use some wd40. theres no problem meeting the women and closing ive got plenty of numbers and sometimes i get them the next morning if you know what i mean. after that is usually all goes downhill. heres an example of how it goes. so i went out with a bunch of ppl last night to go to a bar and chill for a little bit. i picked my target which was a friend of a friend i never met before. i played the game flawlessly. she was even making it easy taking my phone and adding me on ig and fb right in front me. weve been texting off and on today since we both had to work all day and this is how its going. her-hey, i made it home in one peice lol me- see texting was lot better lol now you can get your 5 hours in her- 5 very short hours me- 5 and half hours without a shower right? (inside joke) next morning her-so i caved and took a shower lol me-i caved to:( you made it sound good last night, you feel like a champ today? a couple hours later me- you were out of control last night her-me? never me-idk you probably cant remember it all her-yeah those 3 beers really did me in me- oh, and i thought i was the sarcastic one in all this her-you were obviously so wrong me-ouch... and where was this fun girl last night her-she was there, you were just too intoxicated to notice (i did have some liquid confidence in me) me- she was the fun one who broke my phone her- i fixed your phone! me-oh really? so i owe you one then? her- haha yep and i cut it off after that. in rapport she said she usually stops the convo so i figured id be a little different. so what do you guys think? ill be the first to admit that im not the best texter at all. im looking for some advice to see if im doing anything right. you can watch guys in the field and see there techniques but you cant really ask them can i see your phone and see how you text your hb. ive read into it a little and from what i understand you dont need to go into rapport again during text convos just keep it light and try and set something up to meet up again. is this right? im pretty lost and need some direction. thanks |
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| Author: | thevoice123 [ Wed Dec 18, 2013 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: text game killing me..... help anybody?s |
Ok, here's my take. It seems like in all the responses you give her, you were letting her control the frame. Also you were going off of what she says, rather than her going off of what you say. I always try to avoid responses that lead to dead end answers, meaning if you know that she can answer easily with a yes or no for example. These types of responses can kill interest because the convo becomes boring. You'll know you have her interest, when she texts you right back. I like to challenge a lot and keep things "cocky/funny" if you will. Then when once you've built up her interest and investment to its peak, you can either escalate or kill the convo. This way it leaves her with interest rather than boredom aka wanting to talk again. You're obviously doing a lot of things right since they've been working for you. Keep up the good work man, text game can be tricky. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Wed Dec 18, 2013 8:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: text game killing me..... help anybody?s |
you're not doing bad.... It does seem she leads the convo in some points.. like when you said "I caved too "You could've said "Yeah I knew you were gonna cave...." but it looks like you have a nice fluid convo going... turn it up a little more. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Wed Dec 18, 2013 10:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: text game killing me..... help anybody?s |
I see nothing wrong w the interaction. A lot of people will only find fault in it if the outcome wasn't desirable. Even crappy text convos will be framed as good if the end result was a lay. So much subjectivity. |
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| Author: | inxile7 [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: text game killing me..... help anybody?s |
Texting has always been my biggest game-killer. Sometimes I get so anxious expecting a text, and to not text the chick again I have to delete her number lol. Either way, I can look at your convo objectively and see the part where you said "Where's the fun girl from last night", and it sort of smacked of you needing affirmation from her. I'd be interested in seeing a guide to texting chicks because I've definitely went from being on a home-stretch to losing it completely with a dumb text convo. |
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