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Author:  5knpnnp [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Jealousy plotline+stupid text the next day. Recoveryoptions?
Girlno1 = your typical oneitis. haven't screwd yet. really strong LMR.
Girlno2 = Just some random strange.

I had a girlno2 over last night and girlno1 sent me a message asking what am I doing. I replied "Having a friend over, watching movie and drinking wine" she asked "are you still going to go to town tonigh" and I replied "Not likely, if everything goes well I'm only going to go to bed".

Well no reply, I took her for a coffee today at 5pm and the first guestion was "when did your friend leave" and I answeder "I dropped her of in the morning". Then nothing, had coffee and I took her home at witch point she asked "So who was it that you had a sleepover with" and I replied "Just some friend".

Well she left the car and I decided to do maybe the stupidest move ever and sent her a message "I noticed that you were quite curious about who I had over? I just wanted to let you know I don't disclose names unless they come up from some other source". only replied "oohh..."

I know I shoudn't reply anything but should I just ignore the whole interaction as I am giving her a ride at midnight.
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 5:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Jealousy plotline+stupid text the next day. Recoveryopti
Please don't use these gay tactics ever again.

In your head, it makes you look cool.

In her head, she now thinks you play games and probably turned off.

Honestly..why did you even mention it?
Author:  5knpnnp [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 6:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Jealousy plotline+stupid text the next day. Recoveryopti
Quote:
In her head, she now thinks you play games and probably turned off.
Honestly..why did you even mention it?
I have no idea why, maybe just pissed off about staying in the "let's maybe be just almost friends" zone.

But my oneitis seem to be responding to me fucking around. 12 missed calls and 8 sms all with the content that can only be interpreted as "you bustard! I wanna be with you" after I sended the worst possible message. Just not sure how to continue from here, might be best to just ignore her for tonight and start fresh on monday or something.
Author:  Xoved [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 8:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Jealousy plotline+stupid text the next day. Recoveryopti
Your last message was a complete fuck-up.

The girl seems jealous that you're moving on so fast. You basically DHVed yourself and then DLVed all over again. Freeze her out for a bit and come fresh to her, and this time, escalate like a crazyass motherfucker. That's the only solution I see. That's only if you want her though.

If she's not the type of relationship material, just next her and keep getting laid.
Author:  5knpnnp [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Jealousy plotline+stupid text the next day. Recoveryopti
Quote:
Your last message was a complete fuck-up.
You basically DHVed yourself and then DLVed all over again.
Yeah I agree 100%.

The only thing to do here is to wait few days and see if it's still salvageable. If not I'm still going to play with other girls, and if yes I'm still going to play with other girls.

The girl was out with her friends tonight and after those messages I went to see this girl and got bashed by her friends for sleeping around \o/ tried to argue that "we are not in a relationship". Got more shit and ended up leaving after saying "I see that my presence isn't needed so you girls have a lovely evening."
Author:  detox75 [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 10:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Jealousy plotline+stupid text the next day. Recoveryopti
you passed over from from effective jealousy plot-line to DTF Slut litmus test

Basically you backed the girl into a corner in which she had to confront being a slut directly rather then offer her some plausible deniability; not advisable even with a FB. Your biggest mistake wasn't the last text, it was "if everything goes well I'm only going to go to bed" one.
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