Theres this girl that goes to my college now, I was always confused whether she liked me or not. If i was with another girl she would get jealous and come talk to me. She would always ask who I'm texting. She asked ME for my number. She is in one of my friend circles and since day 1 of meeting her I have shown that I am not just a friend by flirting.
Our friend circle planned something and we were all excited to go but then they all flopped. I wrote to her saying "so its just me and you
" and surprisingly she was happy about it (the times before that I asked her to hangout she never did...almost concluded that she wasn't interested). This sorta date thing was not a date. It was really fun hanging out with her, i gave her a tour of the school and in our walk i got to know her more. I asked her if she ever dated anyone before and she told me yes and a lot. She said she is currently in a complicated long distance relationship. So I asked her about it and she told me about her boyfriend who used to go to her old school, now lives in some other country . She said he still dates other girls and tells her about it. She told me she still dates other guys, and i guess its because they are trying to move on. She shows me a picture of him on the phone and its some tall guy with a pretty built body. She also told me he buys her a lot of things and she loved that about him...I told her I have no money so too bad we can't date
(to disqualify her). She told me a lot of guys r afraid of her bf...I told her I'm not , cause its not like we've done anything.Anyways, the date turned more friendly but I did say that it sucked i didn't have money or we cud date (in a jokingly way) and she responded well bout it. She also said she didn't have much money and knows how i feel. As we walked across some grand theatres downtown, I said maybe sometime when we get jobs and she was all happy n stuff
She started to seem like she could just be a good wing girl and at the time I was ok with it cause finding out she was in a relationship already made me feel like i was disqualified. I really didn't care how i acted around her cause i felt rejected already...felt like i was friend zoned but that it was weird cause she ok with my flirting.
About a week later, she hears from a friend that I have a crush on her. On chat she was really shy on telling me something, she messages saying she heard I had crush on her. I responded saying yeah i sorta do have a crush on you but I wouldn't want to complicate things between you and your boyfriend. Then I said "I thought you already knew that"
she responded : "yea I did, this world needs more guys like you
"After that, iv noticed that she talks to me more on chat. She came to hangout with me and few buddies who are in the friend circle and during that I noticed she is always paying attention to me. Even If I'm not talking to her she is listening or watching (well not always but most the time ). Though i did notice that she doesn't initiate any conversation with me. She just observe what I am doing and what I am saying.
We still talk on chat and I don't know if I am friend zoned or if she is playing me on a hook, or if she likes me.
What should my game plan be?
Me and the friend circle are planning to go out maybe skating and i told her i would teach her how.
thats in a few weeks though, should I try asking her to meet up again? How should I play this ? Flirty, normal, friendly, direct...
thanks
and sorry for my grammer and punctuation. Its late (early morning) here and I can't get sleep thinking bout her. Finally a girl I can see my self in a relationship with.