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| Author: | SimonTG [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 11:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What's wrong with my mindset? |
At the moment, this is my situation. Single, attractive guy who gets attention from ladies. As soon as they show interest i back off, and don't initiate, then when things don't go my way i over analyze shit and start thinking why in the world am I not actually actively pursuing these girls, instead of being a pussy and just waiting for a woman to fall on my dick. TLDR; - have options, but do not pursure. - find myself sitting there after craving a woman but get to that same point and pull back a few steps. PS this is with chicks that area actually present in my life, not for chicks that i find when im out. |
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| Author: | SimonTG [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What's wrong with my mindset? |
I know theres something wrong with my mindset, that's why im asking. More im trying to find out WHY i am doing this from a psychological POV, and then to overcome it. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 2:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What's wrong with my mindset? |
You're delusional if you think looks alone matter. Women will make it easier for a guy to open them if they're interested but if you fail to take the ball they figure you aren't interested and move on to a guy who will reciprocate. I had the same issue when I was younger, and then I grew a pair. |
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