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| Author: | dankenstien [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 5:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | kind of going on a blind date |
so tomorrow I have arrangements to meet up with my friend, his girl, and her friend. I started playing words with friends with this girl as suggested by my friends girlfriend. she posted something relating to her friend on her fb. I then thought to see what this broad was all about. turns out we are both tattooed by the same artist, and we like the same music. I wasn't too sure how to go about meeting her, and then I saw her at a bar. so I later messaged her asking if she was there. that was about a month ago. anyway I then told my friend to get us to discreetly end up in the same place. I am the kind of guy that girls approach, but I was chatting with her last night through the game, and she said don't you think we play this too much. I responded with I really only play with you, and that's because I think you're cute. she said that was flattering and we spoke as if it were nothing. by the way my friend wasn't discreet, and she agreed. I know that she is really shy. how should I play this out? |
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| Author: | dankenstien [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 12:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kind of going on a blind date |
What I'm really wanting to know is what I should do since I told her I think she's cute. I'm thinking about playing it çool and after awhile acting like she spit on me to open it up. I just don't want to come in all flirty |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 1:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: kind of going on a blind date |
You think she is cute and you told her so, so what? Stick to your guns, never apologise for anything like that or get weird about it. A girl recently told me she thought I was a bit eager or coming on too strong, so I told her that I think she's really fucking hot and I'm not interested in just being friends with her and that she would have to deal with it. EDIT: I also told her that if she doesn't like the way I am then don't see me again, simple solution. I made it clear I am unafraid of losing her. But I guess it depends on your frame and natural demeanor, since my ex left me I have stopped giving two solitary shits what a girl thinks and will not alter my behaviour and I am open and honest and my success has skyrocketed. The girl who thought I was over eager still texts me every single day and wants to meet up again soon. Obviously don't be a creep, but don't overthink either. Be natural, fun and interesting and don't be afraid to physically escalate. |
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