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| Author: | daff [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 1:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | She doesn't like me, right? 1st date... |
Hi could really use some advice... So I went out a girl to a restaurant for a first date. It seemed like she had fun but from I could tell she definitely wasn't into me. I even mentioned oh well we could do ___ sometime and she kind of brushed it off. Then after the date she said It was nice but got out of there really quickly - no kiss. I thought forsure it was going nowhere so I said hey why not just see - so I sent her a text saying thanks for dinner and I asked if she was interested in going out again. She replied "thanks! sure : ) have a good week" Now it's been two weeks ...she never initiates contact ... I've texted the past two weekends. First weekend just said hi how was your week... it took her alittle while to respond. next week I wrote again and she wrote the next morning saying she was so sorry she forgot to write back and asked how i was etc. The next day I asked what shes doing today and she said "i got called into work : (" So I'm pretty sure she's not interested : (. Any advice? I am going out with other girls but I did like this one... I probably won't text her for a week or so because I'm pretty busy... |
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| Author: | bmw2312 [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She doesn't like me, right? 1st date... |
She seems to like you she is taking the time to keep in contact. Try something different something guys don't do anymore when they first meet a girl... Call her it will make u stand out and u can listen to the tone of her voice |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 1:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She doesn't like me, right? 1st date... |
At this stage her interest level is low you didnt turn her on during the date, restaurant dates suck its can be hard to escalate and do kino, don't take dates 1's to restaraunts again its Hollywood bullshit. She's letting you down easy by still replying to texts but she'll likely stop altogether soon unless you do something. I disagree with the above poster about interest level but i do agree you should call, and before you do have an interesting idea for date 2, she's probably not that keen to see you again but if you come up with a good idea she might agree to go purely on the back of the idea. If you get a date 2, escalate plenty and aim for sex. |
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| Author: | goundy [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She doesn't like me, right? 1st date... |
This has happend to me 100000 times before I realized what I was doing wrong. First you need to question your motives. Are you trying to get laid? If the answer is yes (and it is probably), then doing a vanilla date isn't going to cut it. What you want is to physically escalate, lead and go for the pull. You see not doing this makes the date very friend-to-friend but if you take advantage of natural male-female chemistry, you cna make the time spent with her much mroe valuable. Even if you want her to be your girlfriend, you still should sleep with her first. Afterall, thats the best way to keep a girl interested in you. If oyur just chilling and talking - she might aswell be with her mum. Arrange a date thats much much more sexual (calibrate it properly) and you use the sexual tension between you two as leverage for her to want you. You need to escalate and pull. If you don't there wasn't much point to the date but eating food with company. -goundy |
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| Author: | ZealousR [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She doesn't like me, right? 1st date... |
It's as simple as his: trust your intuition if you feel she doesn't like your or share a connection leave her be for about a week, when you re-initiate you're back like a fucking god. Flirt like a player,like a ladies man, like a lover. What have you got to lose? If she's not interested then you re-initiating to seem decent is only going to put you in the freindzone. When you contact her again talk to her like you want her. I've used this as of late, I got seemingly friendzoned, so when we hung out again I escalated kino, wrapped my arms around her and Even smacked her ass when we departed. Yeah she acted mad, she chased me hard after that. Honestly no girl has responded negatively to returning with heavy flirting, they love it. The whole point is if you feel your not in the right connection with her, sit back a small while, and return as if you you're a new man. What have you got to lose? Her attraction? Yeah, right. Good luck, share how it turned out. |
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| Author: | Chemicals [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She doesn't like me, right? 1st date... |
I would avoid a restaurant as a first date unless you are very funny. Personally I do well with restaurant dates since I'm good/healthy looking, and very funny. Its hard to build attraction or demonstrate other values while eating dinner. Honestly from you report your chances with this particular girl look very bleak. I would stop contacting her and try to go on dates with other girls. Try to find your strong suits, and cater a date that will demonstrate them. It sucks when things don't go well with a girl you like, but remember there are lots of great girls out there, just keep honing your skills and enjoy life. Goodluck. |
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