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| Author: | Alexleonardo [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 2:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | First date at a night club, bad idea ? |
So i met this girl last week friday when i was working (DJ'ing) @ a night club. We spoke after my set and had a few drinks at the club and she was with her friend the whole time who ended up getting to know my manager. Anyway, i got her number. We've been texting each other, things like what do we do, what do we study, etc. Anyway i sent her a text last night saying hey i got some tickets to this club on saturday, your coming, and bring your friend along too. anyway she said cool, which club ? - I haven't responded back yet I was thinking to cancell it and say it's due to work and take her out to like the cinema/restaurant or something else She seems like a very quiet girl and shy girl so i would assume it would be better to get to know her somewhere quiet Should i cancel and take her out to a normal place or still take her to the club, if so what do i do when im there ? I'm planning to take some E & give her some aswell and just have a good time |
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| Author: | panorama [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 2:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First date at a night club, bad idea ? |
Here are a few advantages of each: Clubs - Great place to convey your interest in her and kino escalate because you can easily isolate her from her friends - Since you are a DJ, I am guessing this will put you in your element which she will find attractive - You can throw in a jealousy plotline to ramp up her attraction for you if she isnt already Something More Casual - Much better to get to know her because you can actually have a conversation...this will allow you to build more comfort to get passed her LMR - It will come across less like you are trying to get something from her so her guard will be lower (Suggestions: Do something where the emphasis is not going to be on you two. A few good examples are going shopping for something you already need or going to a low key live music event. You two can each bring your friends along.) This really comes down to 2 things: 1) Is she already attracted to you? (yes=something casual would be better, no=the club would be better) 2) How much LMR is she going to have? (LOTS=do something more casual, little=do the club and go for a fools mate) |
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| Author: | DeleteMyAccount [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 10:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First date at a night club, bad idea ? |
Hey Alex, Great question. The club gives you Lots of social value because you're a DJ there, but it is not a good place to game or isolate a girl. She will also potentially be hit on by a lot of other guys. I would recommend going someplace more casual where you can talk, get to know each other and grab some drinks. It's preferable to make this place close to where you live so that you can bounce there if things go well. |
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