PUA Forum :: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract women?

Hey!
I have this problem that i am to nice, i never get the girls because i am too nice and not "bad ass" enough. How do i change this problem?

Do you have some simple tips to start to attract women? KINO tips, inner game and outer game?

And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit?

Thanks!

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And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit?

Thanks!

Kino and eye contact are the key. Be SEXUAL.You can still be nice etc, but be sexual. Kino is easy, just touch her!

Quote:

And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit?

Thanks!

Kino and eye contact are the key. Be SEXUAL.You can still be nice etc, but be sexual. Kino is easy, just touch her!

And how do i get sexual without making it awkward?

Any tips for confidence and so on?

Actually this is an interesting topic. Because i personally find it really difficult to play the "bad boy" without being toooo cocky or even arrogant. On the other hand if i try to be more sexual but still nice at the same time i often find myself falling back into this "Mr. Nice guy" role. Its really difficult to find the right balance, especially when you have been this "nice guy" your entire life and want to change now.

I understand exactly where you come from. Im in the same situation.
I can be friends with the hottest chicks. Literally. If its at work, in school, all the hot girls "like" me. But not in a sexual way. Typical cases of "Hey you are sooo nice, lets be friends". I cant say i have found the right balance yet. Certainly not. But i just try not to care anymore and talk very ambiguous and sexual to the girl. I really dont care if its going to be another "We are friends" or if i end up in bed with her. I just dont care and i think thats really the key.
I always thought "No way! You cant talk to a girl like that! She will think youre an asshole"
I wouldnt even dare to say anything sexual to a girl. Funny example of today:
I talked to a hot co worker today. Like i said i really dont care about her but i´d definitely do her...

Me: Hey I really like your shoes. Looks like they have bunny fur inside.
She: Yeah! Come here, feel it! (I go feel the fur)
Me: Feels great. But there are no shoes like that for men.
She: Of course yes! We should go shoe shopping together and i will find you something nice.
Me: That would be great. And after that i would like to show you my Bunny at home!
She: Yeah! That would be great. We should to this... (She knows that i have no bunny of course)

So yeah...I just try to keep it funny and sexual as good as i can. And it seems to work quite well...

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I've seen your other posts.. it's because you don't make a move, ever.

Author:	TheGuyThatRules [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 5:24 pm ]
Post subject:	how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract women?
Hey! I have this problem that i am to nice, i never get the girls because i am too nice and not "bad ass" enough. How do i change this problem? Do you have some simple tips to start to attract women? KINO tips, inner game and outer game? And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit? Thanks!

Author:	TheFury [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Quote: Hey! I have this problem that i am to nice, i never get the girls because i am too nice and not "bad ass" enough. How do i change this problem? Do you have some simple tips to start to attract women? KINO tips, inner game and outer game? And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit? Thanks! Kino and eye contact are the key. Be SEXUAL.You can still be nice etc, but be sexual. Kino is easy, just touch her!

Author:	TheGuyThatRules [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 6:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Quote: Quote: Hey! I have this problem that i am to nice, i never get the girls because i am too nice and not "bad ass" enough. How do i change this problem? Do you have some simple tips to start to attract women? KINO tips, inner game and outer game? And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit? Thanks! Kino and eye contact are the key. Be SEXUAL.You can still be nice etc, but be sexual. Kino is easy, just touch her! And how do i get sexual without making it awkward? Any tips for confidence and so on?

Author:	TheFury [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Quote: Quote: Quote: Hey! I have this problem that i am to nice, i never get the girls because i am too nice and not "bad ass" enough. How do i change this problem? Do you have some simple tips to start to attract women? KINO tips, inner game and outer game? And one more thing that is a bit deeper, how do i get confidence to do what i want and not give a shit? Thanks! Kino and eye contact are the key. Be SEXUAL.You can still be nice etc, but be sexual. Kino is easy, just touch her! And how do i get sexual without making it awkward? Any tips for confidence and so on? By not worrying about being awkward. you know what is more awkward? Beating around the bush with a girl... If she calls you out just say you are a touchy feely kind of guy.

Author:	TheGuyThatRules [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 7:33 pm ]
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how do i KINO properly? And when i text with girls, on FB or something, they answer and we chat a bit, but suddenly they flakes and the conversation dies, what can i do to keep it interesting and going? The same girls are very chatty when i talk to them in person

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Author:	JTQatar [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 7:38 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Actually this is an interesting topic. Because i personally find it really difficult to play the "bad boy" without being toooo cocky or even arrogant. On the other hand if i try to be more sexual but still nice at the same time i often find myself falling back into this "Mr. Nice guy" role. Its really difficult to find the right balance, especially when you have been this "nice guy" your entire life and want to change now.

Author:	JTQatar [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 8:04 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
I understand exactly where you come from. Im in the same situation. I can be friends with the hottest chicks. Literally. If its at work, in school, all the hot girls "like" me. But not in a sexual way. Typical cases of "Hey you are sooo nice, lets be friends". I cant say i have found the right balance yet. Certainly not. But i just try not to care anymore and talk very ambiguous and sexual to the girl. I really dont care if its going to be another "We are friends" or if i end up in bed with her. I just dont care and i think thats really the key. I always thought "No way! You cant talk to a girl like that! She will think youre an asshole" I wouldnt even dare to say anything sexual to a girl. Funny example of today: I talked to a hot co worker today. Like i said i really dont care about her but i´d definitely do her... Me: Hey I really like your shoes. Looks like they have bunny fur inside. She: Yeah! Come here, feel it! (I go feel the fur) Me: Feels great. But there are no shoes like that for men. She: Of course yes! We should go shoe shopping together and i will find you something nice. Me: That would be great. And after that i would like to show you my Bunny at home! She: Yeah! That would be great. We should to this... (She knows that i have no bunny of course) So yeah...I just try to keep it funny and sexual as good as i can. And it seems to work quite well...

Author:	TheFury [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Quote: I understand exactly where you come from. Im in the same situation. I can be friends with the hottest chicks. Literally. If its at work, in school, all the hot girls "like" me. But not in a sexual way. Typical cases of "Hey you are sooo nice, lets be friends". I cant say i have found the right balance yet. Certainly not. But i just try not to care anymore and talk very ambiguous and sexual to the girl. I really dont care if its going to be another "We are friends" or if i end up in bed with her. I just dont care and i think thats really the key. I always thought "No way! You cant talk to a girl like that! She will think youre an asshole" I wouldnt even dare to say anything sexual to a girl. Funny example of today: I talked to a hot co worker today. Like i said i really dont care about her but i´d definitely do her... Me: Hey I really like your shoes. Looks like they have bunny fur inside. She: Yeah! Come here, feel it! (I go feel the fur) Me: Feels great. But there are no shoes like that for men. She: Of course yes! We should go shoe shopping together and i will find you something nice. Me: That would be great. And after that i would like to show you my Bunny at home! She: Yeah! That would be great. We should to this... (She knows that i have no bunny of course) So yeah...I just try to keep it funny and sexual as good as i can. And it seems to work quite well... I've seen your other posts.. it's because you don't make a move, ever.

Author:	JTQatar [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Quote: Quote: I understand exactly where you come from. Im in the same situation. I can be friends with the hottest chicks. Literally. If its at work, in school, all the hot girls "like" me. But not in a sexual way. Typical cases of "Hey you are sooo nice, lets be friends". I cant say i have found the right balance yet. Certainly not. But i just try not to care anymore and talk very ambiguous and sexual to the girl. I really dont care if its going to be another "We are friends" or if i end up in bed with her. I just dont care and i think thats really the key. I always thought "No way! You cant talk to a girl like that! She will think youre an asshole" I wouldnt even dare to say anything sexual to a girl. Funny example of today: I talked to a hot co worker today. Like i said i really dont care about her but i´d definitely do her... Me: Hey I really like your shoes. Looks like they have bunny fur inside. She: Yeah! Come here, feel it! (I go feel the fur) Me: Feels great. But there are no shoes like that for men. She: Of course yes! We should go shoe shopping together and i will find you something nice. Me: That would be great. And after that i would like to show you my Bunny at home! She: Yeah! That would be great. We should to this... (She knows that i have no bunny of course) So yeah...I just try to keep it funny and sexual as good as i can. And it seems to work quite well... I've seen your other posts.. it's because you don't make a move, ever. I just did...And this week im gonna do it again but this time i will start right away and try to go all the way. Fuck it. I aint got nothing to lose anyways...And please keep in mind ALL OF MY posts have been about one and the same girl!!...Time to switch to "bad boy mode" now. If she still keeps flaking and friendzoning (even though its obvious she wants SOMEthing from me...) imma get the hell out of there, use the things i have learned and see if i can make things happen with other girls...

Author:	oceanx [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 3:07 am ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Be yourself when approaching and texting and dating girls. But make sure that within "yourself" is a man who makes his intentions clear, who is confident, who isn't afraid of kino or eye contact, and who vibes with the girl from the familiar frame rather than the stranger frame.

Author:	fishnwomen [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 3:51 am ]
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I keep it varied. I will make some snarky comments to a girl, and be nice at other moments. It's really a mind frame. You don't want to treat her special, don't pay for anything right away, don't sacrifice for her. A good way to demonstrate nice guy behavior while being alpha is being generous to people around you. Give them beers, or be generous in general. Material things are abundant for the alpha so it's not a big deal. Just make sure she earns everything you give her, giving things to girls too early is a big no no. Would you respect someone who is willing to pay you, just to keep talking to you? Unless you are a psychologist, I doubt it.

Author:	goundy [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 5:05 am ]
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Hey dude. First don't accosiate the nice guy with someone who doesn't get laid. Just associate someone who doesn't know how to get laid with someone who doesn't get laid. if you want to get good you just have to learn the ropes first hand and go out and approach allot. If you still have trouble, what I would reccomend is that you bring to the table sexual intent through escalation and lazer eye contact. -goundy

Author:	Il-Cavalieri [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 4:22 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Another exemple of sexual talk: Even today I was walking down the street with a female intern from my office and she complained about her shoes (she was wearing stilettos). Girl: "Damn, these shoes suck!" Me: "I beg to differ" (as I clearly check her out from head to toe) Girl: "You say that because you are not a woman. Shoes like these fuck up your feet" Me: "Fucking the feet? Well, I try everything at least once, but that sounds unconfortable" She calls me a pervert and laughs as much she almost cry. Later she sent me a link to a footjob on xvideos. Anyway, how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy: Treat girls the same way you treat guys. That is, treat everyone with respect, stand up for your crew, and don't take crap from anyone.

Author:	R.C [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 6:20 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: how to stop being Mr. Nice Guy and start to attract wome
Just don't play it too safe. If you ever have a fun comment or something you wanna say , say it. Don't hesitate because "what will she think if I say that ?". Imagine you're talking to your best friend. There's a reason the conversations with him are always fun. Neither of you ever hesitate nor play it safe.

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