So last March I turned 21, which really jump started me going out to bars and clubs. Although I am finding it hard to stray away from a push/pull routine. I had no problem completing the newby test, or straight up talking to girls. The problem I have is not many people at the bars I go to use push/pull so it works in a sense that the girl dose not automatically shield up. It seems to me most guys open and stick around to long and end up either boring the girl or immediately get shot down.

An example:
Me: playing some bar game ( shuffle board, darts, pool, etc)
HB: sitting at bar
Me: make eye contact and smile
HB: smiles back, and keeps looking my way
Me: No more eye contact till I finish my drink, and then go towards her end of the bar and order another
Me: Chat her up ask her name, and or questions till my drink arrives.
HB: Continues on with small talk etc.
ME: Get my drink it was nice meeting you, but I have a game to play.
HB: 80% of the time will say something like " Can I play next" or "Will you teach me how to play"
Me: I always say "sure", feel free to come over and sit by me while I finish this current game.

Then as we are playing I asses her. I start introducing more body language (guiding her hand in shuffle board etc). Also make sure and give her compliments and or neg her when appropriate.

So in essence I am asking how do you transition from a push/pull tactic, to a more direct approach in a setting where every other male in there is doing the same?

( sorry for the horrible grammer on my phone)