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| Author: | musclepua [ Sun Nov 17, 2013 10:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | People always say I'm nice... |
For some reason, usually at my weekend job at a fast food restaurant, whenever I'm just being myself at some point a girl will randomly say something like "thanks, you're so nice" or "you're such a nice guy". I know it's technically a complement, but I don't like getting it because it's a beta and weak thing to be. What kinds of things can I do or say to seem like less of a nice guy and more of a strong person? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Nov 17, 2013 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
Stop being nice , simple. Bust their balls/take the piss...Otherwise known as 'cocky and funny' |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
"Nice guy" is thw biggest insult you can get, "nice guy" = unattractive and boring. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
Of course you generally WANT to be a "nice guy" when you're on the job or hanging with your family or friends. But around women, approaching, etc. as you have already stated "too nice" is beta. You don't need to be an asshole - just a confident dude with a sexy vibe who knows how to lead interactions. Go out and meet some women and your confidence will go up, causing you to not give a shit what any random person thinks of you or says to you. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
There's a difference between being a "good person" and being a complete push over (nice guy). Being a good person with morals is a good thing.... being a push over, well, that won't get you anywhere in life. what are some of the things that you are doing that are causing people to say "thank you, you're so nice."? |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
Lol.. I don't know about you guys but girls tell me I'm such a nice guy all the time.. That doesn't affect their attraction for me or my ability to fuck them because I know how to use my sexuality. Attracting women is about sexual tension; and if you genuinely love women and just aren't in this because your ego needs to be validated by getting laid you'll be nice to the like me. I love em too much to be mean honestly.. I'd stay, take less focus on trying not to be nice and put more focus on your sexuality. |
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| Author: | musclepua [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 5:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
Quote: what are some of the things that you are doing that are causing people to say "thank you, you're so nice."? Also, another instance I can think of was when me and two of my guy friends were hanging out, they started joking around about how funny it would be to see me get mad because I'm a muscular guy but as one of them put it am a "teddy bear". Those are all I can think of right now, finals are killing my brain! |
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| Author: | goundy [ Tue Nov 19, 2013 1:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: People always say I'm nice... |
nothing beta about that. Don't identify with typical notions of what 'strong' and 'weak' is. The only thing that matters here is your game and your ability to get laid. Girls call me nice all the time - that would definitely signify a greater contextual problem if I wasn't getting laid, but seeing as I am it is a moot point with no value. -goiundy |
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