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Author:  Zorroqwn [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 2:57 am ]
Post subject:  Why rejected?!!
Tonight I was a little bit tipsy, went out with friends. In a club we were dancing and stuff there were two girls near us dancing too. I got that bitchy AA and after 15min I approached the little girl, she was looking at me during those 15min, she came close to us with her back to me, I tapped her and say to her that she is really looks like my gf, lol my purpose was to afterward say to her that I don't have any gf and play more with her. But she rejected me from the beginning. I know the rules a little bit and I read the game by Neil Strauss, I know that it was a lame approach but I've never get rejected like this before. I'm a good looking guy 180cm and have everything but enough bulls to talk to girls. Sb help me with this plz
Author:  goundy [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 4:01 am ]
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Dont worry bro. Rejection happens to every no matter how long you been in the game. The best approach isn't to base how well 'one' approach went but how your 'whole' night went because ideally you want to be approaching all night and slowly build your emotional state up.

Anyway, talking on the dance floor is a big no-no. Its a very physcial place and words are exchanged here and there but only within the context of physicality aka, you make eye contact, pull her in then "whats your name".

Its also not what you say thats important - its all about sub communication. I would write down a list of what they are but its allot easier if you jsut have allot of fun because you automatically do these things when your having a kickass time.

So just try and have as much fun as possible, then when you go to mack on chicks your 'magically' 10x more attractive.

Good luck dude

-goundy
Author:  DboTheHero [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:59 pm ]
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There could be 1000 reasons why she rejected you, many of which would be things completely out of your control. She might've had a bad day, might be in a committed relationship, might just be an evil witch sorceress... as said previously, EVERYONE gets rejected from time to time no matter how good you are at PU. Sometimes you can learn from rejection, but you're unlikely to learn anything from one interaction due to the number of potential variables involved. Just forget it and move on to the next lady.
Author:  musclepua [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:12 pm ]
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Quote:
I got that bitchy AA and after 15min I approached the little girl, she was looking at me during those 15min
3 second rule bro. If you wait more than 3 seconds, not only will you get nervous and overthink the approach, but she will start to wonder why you're staring at her for so long and get turned off. Approach as soon as you see a girl you like.
Author:  Xoved [ Fri Nov 15, 2013 11:02 pm ]
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Dance game = no talk, escalate to dirty dance and kiss as soon as you can.
Anyways, just move on, no big deal, you'll have better chances soon.
Author:  Zorroqwn [ Sat Nov 16, 2013 10:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why rejected?!!
I appreciate the answers and your warm supports ;) when I posted this I was drunk and just got back from my bd party, I wasn't in the mood to approach on that night, I did one completly wrong approach and it sucked hard xp
But when this happens you're supposed to learn sth from, what I learn was;
1 don't hesitate for more than few seconds, as this bro mentioned the 3sec rule, u get nervous and more and more afraid
2 don't approach from backside
3 dance floor is indeed a terrible place to open a set, the other night I tried to open a 5set with an opinion openner it was not bad but just one person could hear me every time, I had to repeat it for each person xp
4 practice your openner far beyond the first sentences and analyse each question and possible reacts
5 don't be a pussy and approach more sets
6 don't get too drunk, when u talk to girls u sounds like a drunk horny bastard ;)
Let me know if I'm wrong or forget sth
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Sun Nov 17, 2013 8:46 am ]
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If half the girls reject you on opener than that is awesome, becausevthat means half dont.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 5:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why rejected?!!
Probably because you talked to one fucking girl the whole night... You had no social value because you stood there like a weirdo starring at her for 15 minutes before you actually worked up the nerve to go say something.

Dude, you've gotta talk to ALOT of girls. Keep doing it again, and again, and again, and you eventually get laid. Yes, its a numbers game. Yes, you have to deal with alot of "no's" before you get a "yes" but eventually, you get better and better because you learn what you did wrong. Just keep at it man. Talk to more than one girl through out the duration of the night too for fucks sake.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why rejected?!!
80% of my clients are some of the most attractive well built guys you'll ever see in your life. And they struggle getting the women that they want.

Your looks have nothing to do with whether you'll be rejected or not.. Also, a rejection isn't always a rejection as much as it is a "test" . You could easily correct 50% of them by just laugh at yourself and trying something else. You let her penetrate your confidence and she lost attraction.

I've had some brutal rejections that I've thought about for longer than I should. Like that meek mill song " theres levels to this shit ".. If a girl has the ability to penetrate and lower your confidence with a look or a statement; you aren't on a high enough level to attract her yet.

This is like working out - when you work out, your muscles rip and then they grow back stronger. This experience was a rip of your mental muscles. As they heal, they'll grow back strong and you'll be able to handle a girl of that caliber next time.
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