Good afternoon PUAS of the world and thanks for reading my post.
A lot is available to read in the forum about this issue, but overnegging is one of my main sticking points and i would like to get you guys opinions. I usually abuse it even with strangers, not that i want to seem arrogant.... but its just what happens, and in the end.....i end up pushing the HB away.
My question for the more experienced ones is : are there ways to fight or deal with it ? Obviously at some point you neeed to balance the "equation" and pass a little bittle of confidence to the HB so she can feel confortable and approved, enjoying to be with and near you. A compliment maybe..... are there ways to Balace it ? How to give compliments without seeming needy or showing interest but without being too much ?
As usual opinions are very welcomed .
