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| Author: | Lankie [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 12:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to reignite with a past HB |
Hey guys, would love some advice on how to get back into contact with a HB whom may or may not be abit pissed at me. I met this HB at work, she was only there for a few months before she took a new job in another state. We liked each other and she said we would get drinks when she gets back in town in a few weeks. Now that shes no longer at work, I stupidly sleep with another girl from work at the staff party and I guess she found out and never replied to my messages to organise drinks. It's been about 4 months now and I want to find out whether or not shes still mad at me and if theres anything I can do to reignite the flame. I can either txt her or message her on facebook although we're not friends on facebook. Any advice would be very much appreciated! |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 1:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
Call her on the phone and just talk to her A word message isn't going to cut it. Call her and speak to her verbally. |
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| Author: | Lankie [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
How should I behave? Should I be apologetic? Act like it never happened? Try and play it off casually? Thanks for the reply! |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
Of course you wouldn't bring it up unless she does..She may not even know it happened. But why would you apologize? She isn't your girlfriend, so you didn't do anything wrong. Just be cool and casual. Have a normal conversation and then ask her out. |
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| Author: | StuDuck [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 3:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
Why do you need to apologise for sleeping with another girl. You weren't in a relationship with this girl so why does she own you? I doubt she would have not slept with a guy she liked simply because she offered to buy some drinks in a few weeks time. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
I wrote about this in an article on my site.. search for "Cold" on my page (link in my sig). JoeySkillz basically has it down though, play it cool, don't apologize (unless it is 100% OBVIOUS that you did something VERY wrong, which it isn't here) |
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| Author: | Lankie [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
I agree with you guys, I didn't do anything wrong but I may have hurt her feelings which I do feel bad about (possible AFC tendencies?). Thanks Fury, I looked up your article and it helped me alot! Appreciate the advice fellas, any other articles or links would be awesome! |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 8:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
NO. Do not apologize under any circumstance. You were not dating, neither were you in a relationship, and it's not your fault. She should've brought up the feelings talk if she had any at that time, so don't blame yourself. As TheFury said, call her, it's the best option. Act like it didn't happen and try to set up a date with her. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to reignite with a past HB |
You weren't dating her in any way. If anything, she may be MORE interested in u if she found out about your partygirl. Call her & be smooth & confident it's your only option. |
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