Im gonna try to keep this as short and to the point as possible. Im recently single after 3.5 yrs in a relationship and im getting back into the game.

Im approaching girls, groups and not, focusing on the ones I want. Always seems good. They laugh, smile, seem interested. I get the number and then I either dont here from them or they flake out.

Now Im guessing its because i havnt been isolating the girls that I want away from their groups and actually making it more personal. Ive just been talking to them along with their group members. But sometimes I feel like its hard to isolate a girl in a bar environment (Im a college student in a college town). Maybe Ill just need to figure out how to go about doing this.

Also, Ive noticed that alot of girls act completely uninterested at first, until I break them down and cut through the shit tests. is this normal for any of yall, or is this just me?

But going back to the real issue, my question is does anyone have any idea as to why this number crap keeps happening to me? is it that im not isolating? and if it is an isolation issue, whats the best way of doing this in a bar/club environment?

I appreciate any and all help.