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Author:  TRMascot [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice on closing?
Ok cheers guys really helpful topics on the forum!

I'm still having trouble closing, I can get a number like childs play, 'gift of the gab' us northerners say ;)

But closing I don't know man, I was thinking it was a slight lack of outer game, but using rapid escalation (shout out to Liam McClean the ledge) I can usually get further than I was before.

E.G
Meet two girls, one bf comes within minutes have the other girls number + fb details. BF asks to go home for a smoke, I ask to join get invited back. Touching her leg , back of the neck can feel her getting into it, slightly shaking etc she's touching my arm amongst other POI's but she still asks her friend to call her a taxi, I walk her down stairs pull her in for a kiss as I open the car door and she gives me the cheek.

But I mean I've not seen a head turn that fast since the Exorcist film.

I was, not fuming but a little meffed, did everything right, didn't get mixed signals. So going to give her a call on Monday.

Just in general any tips for closing? I've not got any issues with anything else except outer game (slightly)

Much appreciated!!
Author:  afcAL [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on closing?
I found that closing is a lot easier when you make it clear throughout the interaction that you are intrigued by the girl as a person, not a meat bag you can have fun with later on. Otherwise you are running a risk of ASD kicking in.

Al
Author:  TRMascot [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 6:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on closing?
ASD? AssHole Syndrome?

Yeah I do use a line like "You know what I like about you? Your different [insert something specific to girl]" or show interest in career or study subject, ask a few questions etc. I like asking things they don't usually get asked.

Sorry if it came across like a twat in the post!
Author:  afcAL [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 6:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on closing?
Quote:
ASD? AssHole Syndrome?
lol
ASD = anti-slut defense. There were times when a girl would literally climb on my lap to make out with me and then take off for the hills. Go figure. I do know that making a good impression on her friends will get you farther than a kiss close.

Al
Author:  TRMascot [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 6:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on closing?
Haha yeah I focused on the bf so I could befriend her mate without him trying to go alpha. I really think it may have just her ASD in retrospect.

But any general closing tips you have would be good for future reference! Thanks dude.
Author:  afcAL [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on closing?
Here's what works for me:

After getting her number, keep talking and amp up the interaction to the point when she can't get enough of you. Now you cut it off "oh I really got to get going."

This works with stories as well. I was telling a girl about me getting flipped by a wave and loosing my shorts. That's where I went "I can't even tell you the rest, 'cause you are obviously a pervert." I got a text from her half an hour later saying something like "you better tell me the rest of it"

Al
Author:  TRMascot [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on closing?
Okay yeah that's really helpful cheers Al, she did respond well when I would ignore her and talk her friend/s bf. I'm definitely going to try that next time, I have my own naked embarrassing story I can use too haha

Another thing on this example, when I asked when I would see her again on the walk down she said "how about let's leave it to fate" sounds like she wasn't really interested in a second meeting so will probably suggest we have an after 8 drink on the phone, Monday.
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