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| Author: | yamajii89 [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Whats the big deal? |
so i have a best friend for 7 years now weve been really close throughout the years i had my fair share of relationship and so dose she, currently we are both single, she hangs out with me on my appartment maybe 3-4 times a week and i also do at some time to her appartment, though in the past we did have sexual contact but that was a few years back, BTW i almost see her everyday and to us its completly normal, currently she is dating this guy that she really likes and ive been dating a couple of girls too. but 3 weeks ago we were in the club together and i saw this one guy that CLEARLY! did not have any good intention on her, and she dosent like one night stands, she goes to a club for friends, a nice guy to have a relationship with, this guy she didnt read, but i did from a distance, creepy to stalk on her? yea she asked me to anyways. so what happened was she was invited to go out on another club to ditch me, her answer was a big NO! then later on that guy's brother comes up to me and takes me out then the guy and two of his friends followed, they were decent size guys, but out of the 4 of them i was still bigger, and us having been experience in this, i signaled her to move out of the club right away and i just talk them off it no fight was held. we left and we sat on the bay and talked about that, she said thanks and it got a little too intimate and she had tears and told me how much she appriciated me, later on so did i, that night we kissed intimatly for the first time! she also whispered "i can see you now" last time was her just being FWB, but now i felt her. and i think she felt me too. it was a 10min kiss i would say tho no sex that night. we did sleep on the same bed, i couldve initiated but i was overwhelmed with mixed feeling of awkwardness and excitment and alot of I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR WHAT THIS IS!. anyways now that that story is out of the way, currently she is still dating the guy that she really likes, and the guy is a very nice guy and am good friends with too. its just that she dosent look at me the same way anymore and she dosent want to talk about it, she still cuddles at night hold each others hands, we act as though we are together calling ourselves couple names, kiss intimatly every now and then and i just realise that all this time i think she is calling out to me. and im not so sure of myself dating other girls anymore. everytime i do, i seem to compare them to her and how tight of a bond we share throughout the years and i would just be turned off by this. whats confusing is that the guy that she likes also likes her quite alot, and we saw the guy dating another girl, the girl was quite hot and pretty BTW, in my book maybe a 9-10 DANG WAS SHE HOT!, we saw this and she completly broked down like turned off to the MAX!, but later on she confirmed this to be a missconseption that he was just accompanying that girl to his friend which is that girl's boyfriend, she regained her strenght, so WHATS THE DEAL? dose she have feelings for me or WHAT!? am i still in the friendzone? DAFAQ? or is she just FWBing me again? |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Whats the big deal? |
I've been through this, it's one hell of a situation. I'll tell you one thing though, best friends with benefits is the last step before a relationship. Keep it casual, you're doing the right thing. |
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